How accurate is Mad Men at depicting 1960's life?

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I'm a few seasons in on this really good series but it portrays a very different view of 1960's era lifestyle than what I thought . Sure it is a fictional show and there are lots of inner office politics going on but wouldn't there be some elements of realism ? I always thought that these were more innocent times but the show doesn't portray that at all . I understand 60's had sexual revolution but i thought those were kids and hippies during the later end of that era . The cast in MM are generally young and middle age career people not hippies . But they seem to have morals no different than modern day young millenials .

Here are some points that were vastly different than i thought .

Sluttiness . Everyone is getting down with anyone at any opportunity .

Drunkeness . They are getting plastered at work every single day . Even their kids are mixing drinks for their parents .

Lying . Don Draper is the biggest bastard ever but he's also the classiest guy on the show . His communication with his wife involves a constant stream of lies .

Domestic violence . I just watched the episode where Don's wife asks him to use more discipline on their kids and she shoves him and he shoves her back hard and he's not one bit sorry .

Casual sex . Peggy the nerdy catholic girl got pregnant from a one night stand and dumps the baby with her mother and carries on casually doing more one night sex .

Asking mommy and daddy for money . We just get so much heat that millenials are the generation to ask for more hand outs from bank of mom and dad , leave the nest later , boomer rang back to nest because we're broke and want to leech from our parents because we are all in debt and finanically irresponsible . But Pete and his wife were asking their rich parents to pay for their apartment .

It just doesn't seem like a wholesome time at all . I just assumed from things ive read about even the more recent past that suggest women used to be a lot more chaste and the times were more moral and simple . But is this all imagined and inaccurate stereotyping ? Or is the show not portraying a very accurate social scene of typical adults of that time ?
 
I don't find the Domestic violence surprising at all.

Anyhow, we have to bear in mind that the show depicts a specific group of people (those working in a Marketing firm) that are not representative of the society as a whole. Here we have a bunch of writers and salesmen trying to either push a product or fish a big time client in a stressfull environment in NYC. They sail the upper echelons of society so as rigid and moral that the time may have been, the people portrayed are the ones that could have gotten away doing whatever they wanted, as well as having a life experience substantially different from the commonners, resulting in what you comment.

Is it exaggerated? Absolutely, the show ain't gonna sell itself without some spice here and there.

Is it plausible? Yes, taking into account the previously mentioned exaggeration.
 
Other then typical tv exaggeration its pretty spot on for the types of people it shows (rich high end what not) the show is not abut 50s bible lovers waiting till marriage to fuck and working at a factory. Go watch wonder years to see old days everyday average joe shit.
 
The 50s is more the good, old days era.

I can ask my mom, but i don't actually know much about pre-Vietnam 60's sentiment. It seemed to get more cynical in film as censorship was chipped away at, but post-Vietnam nostalgia was all for 1950s.
 
Exaggeration is not as much as many would think.

The New York (big city) top scenes whether Investment banking or Ad agencies were rife with that type of drinking, drugs partying. That carried on well into the 80's before lawsuits and political correctness took over the work places.

I cannot tell you how many investment banks I know of in Toronto who used to have a 'no spouses' at company functions because of all the fraternization between coworkers and drugs, and how that would look to the S.O. even if their partner was not, at that moment partaking.
 
I'm no expert, but I think you're probably getting a picture of a particular American subculture that caught on as time moved forward (you'll see others featured in random episodes as well, as Don manages to pwn several hippies in the first couple of seasons iirc).

As an aside, Don might be my favourite TV character of all time.

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It's a TV show...... a concentrated view of that business in the 60's.
 
I'm no expert, but I think you're probably getting a picture of a particular American subculture that caught on as time moved forward (you'll see others featured in random episodes as well, as Don manages to pwn several hippies in the first couple of seasons iirc).

As an aside, Don might be my favourite TV character of all time.

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Yeah when he owns that beatnik it's gold.
Lousy beatniks...
 
I'm a few seasons in on this really good series but it portrays a very different view of 1960's era lifestyle than what I thought . Sure it is a fictional show and there are lots of inner office politics going on but wouldn't there be some elements of realism ? I always thought that these were more innocent times but the show doesn't portray that at all . I understand 60's had sexual revolution but i thought those were kids and hippies during the later end of that era . The cast in MM are generally young and middle age career people not hippies . But they seem to have morals no different than modern day young millenials .

Here are some points that were vastly different than i thought .

Sluttiness . Everyone is getting down with anyone at any opportunity .

Drunkeness . They are getting plastered at work every single day . Even their kids are mixing drinks for their parents .

Lying . Don Draper is the biggest bastard ever but he's also the classiest guy on the show . His communication with his wife involves a constant stream of lies .

Domestic violence . I just watched the episode where Don's wife asks him to use more discipline on their kids and she shoves him and he shoves her back hard and he's not one bit sorry .

Casual sex . Peggy the nerdy catholic girl got pregnant from a one night stand and dumps the baby with her mother and carries on casually doing more one night sex .

Asking mommy and daddy for money . We just get so much heat that millenials are the generation to ask for more hand outs from bank of mom and dad , leave the nest later , boomer rang back to nest because we're broke and want to leech from our parents because we are all in debt and finanically irresponsible . But Pete and his wife were asking their rich parents to pay for their apartment .

It just doesn't seem like a wholesome time at all . I just assumed from things ive read about even the more recent past that suggest women used to be a lot more chaste and the times were more moral and simple . But is this all imagined and inaccurate stereotyping ? Or is the show not portraying a very accurate social scene of typical adults of that time ?

I lived through the 50s and 60s and it's a very accurate depiction. Alcohol and drugs were rampant as was sex outside of marriage. It was easier to hide it then and it was hidden. When an unmarried girl got pregnant, she might be sent to live with a relative or the whole family might move. In the last 10 years we've found out about several cousins we didn't know we had as their children gained access to adoption archives and internet genealogy. One of my friends found out that his wife's brother was actually her nephew, the child of her older sister that was raised as her brother.

One neighbor constantly beat his wife when they got drunk. He put her in the hospital several times.

Nothing in human behavior is new. It's been going on since man started walking upright and probably before that.
 
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I actually quit watching Mad Men because I got sick of seeing Don cheating on his women. It didn't take long either. A season and a half and I was done.
 
I'm 42, so I am I between generations. Plus, i hung out with older people when I was younger and now I hang out and date with people younger than me. The older generations had more sex than X or Y. They just did not have it all over the place in the media. You didn't have porn addicts and vibrator addicts. Women were not as likely to be openly bisexual. There was a "Better to spill your seed in the belly of a whore than spill it on the ground." mentality
 
Relatively. Women were actually ashamed of single motherhood or being a thots. Now it's open season. Great times lol
 
I lived through the 50s and 60s and it's a very accurate depiction. Alcohol and drugs were rampant as was sex outside of marriage. It was easier to hide it then and it was hidden. When an unmarried girl got pregnant, she might be sent to live with a relative or the whole family might move. In the last 10 years we've found out about several cousins we didn't know we had as their children gained access to adoption archives and internet genealogy. One of my friends found out that his wife's brother was actually her nephew, the child of her older sister that was raised as her brother.

One neighbor constantly beat his wife when they got drunk. He put her in the hospital several times.

Nothing in human behavior is new. It's been going on since man started walking upright and probably before that.

Well said.
 
The 50s is more the good, old days era.
This has me wondering if maybe that is a lie too and that people were never morally better than they are today . They just lied about it .

All you boys on the internet will have girls believe that being a slut is relatively new but what if its not ? What if all those marriages that lasted 50 years did so becauae of numerous affairs and mistake children that you just dont know about ? And that people were always just as promiscuous and dishonest as they are now ?
 
Pretty accurate in terms of ad agency life back then according to my husband.

And fuck do I miss getting a client drunk to like me enough to sign a deal.
 
This has me wondering if maybe that is a lie too and that people were never morally better than they are today . They just lied about it .

All you boys on the internet will have girls believe that being a slut is relatively new but what if its not ? What if all those marriages that lasted 50 years did so becauae of numerous affairs and mistake children that you just dont know about ? And that people were always just as promiscuous and dishonest as they are now ?

Certainly. Gays did this on the reg. Got married, started a family, and had clandestine relationships with their dudes. I'm sure everyone else did shady shit too. It's naive to think we were any less horny back then.

The nostalgia was just for "simpler times". Things were very status quo and the hippie/LSD era kind of blew everything to smithereens and shit got too real.



My mom was dropping some bombs on me the other day talking about my grandparent's relationship - which ended in the 50's as a result of cheating. I already knew that part of it too.
 
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Certainly. Gays did this on the reg. Got married, started a family, and had clandestine relationships in the dark. I'm sure everyone else did shady shit too. It's naive to think we were any less horny back then.

The nostalgia was just for "simpler times". Things were very status quo and the hippie/LSD era kind of blew everything to smithereens and shit got too real.
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