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Truth. It's not for me either. I was open to, but never really bent on having kids in my 20s and early 30s. Now that I'm 40 I really have no desire to have them. Chasing around little kids in my mid 40s sounds terrible. I've just grown too accustomed to living an easy life at this point. My soon to be wife is about to turn 40 and at least has the same feeling I do about it.Having children is not for everybody. TS is a clear example.
That being said, I know for a fact that kids do bring joy to people's lives contrary to what TS says. Everyone I know that has had kids says that they are wonderful in many ways. But, there is a tradeoff in life when taking that step, a tradeoff that isn't worth it for some people like me. I'll never knock anyone's decision to have kids, I realize how fulfilling it is for some. I'd never ask anyone to change my mind or try to change anyone else's.