So my roommate is dating a girl that recently got divorced from your typical narcissistic controlling abusive type. The guy cheated on her for years, but would go ape shit if she even looked at or talked to another man. Apparently, this guy found out that his ex-wife is now dating someone and freaked out. He's made all kinds of threats to this new BF (my roommate) when and if he finds out who the guy is. My biggest concern with this is that I live with the guy and don't want to deal with some nut showing up at my pad thinking I'm the new BFand creating a bunch of drama. I'm also concerned about my roommate's safety, if the guy is actually as nuts as this girl says Have you ever dealt with one of these assholes? What was the outcome? I tend to believe that most of these guys are just bullies that intimidate women into thinking they're more crazy than they really are so they can control them with fear. Considering that this guy has a good job, doesn't do drugs, and hasn't been in trouble with the law in many years (according to my roommates GF), I'm calling bullshit on his threats, but who really knows.