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A crazy ex? Or perhaps a crazy current girlfriend?
Did she give you little love taps when she got angry?
Slaps?
Perhaps chased you around the house with a butcher knife?
And was it enough for you to leave her?
Generally, I think physical violence is a hard limit (like cheating). I mean if a woman hits you the first time, even not hard, you have to really emphasize that it is unacceptable, even if you look like a drama queen, say it cannot happen again. I say this because 1) If you ever lose your cool and retaliate you're going in the paddy wagon boi! and 2) It is a sign of disrespect that can escalate if unchecked.
Some couples don't think fighting is a deal-breaker, and to each his/her own. I just think about Phil Hartman (R.I.P.) His psychotic wife used to abuse him and he stayed with her... eventually she did a murder-suicide with the kids in the house.
Anyway, your thoughts?