I posted this because of all the incel discussion. Hang in there guys. Maybe you haven’t peeked yet. At 40 my life was falling apart. I was getting a divorce. I was injured. I was a slightly better than average blue belt in jiu Jitsu.
The last 11 years of my life have been my best years. Winning some championships at black belt, got teacher of the year, dating young beautiful women... I’m not sure if I can pull off another decade of getting better at everything. Maybe 50 is the new prime of life? I will give it my best shot.