Has Dating Become Much Easier?

I've heard of that being talked about in other forums, even in body building forums/fit forums. The top tier guys are getting most of the girls. But when the girls get tired of riding the dick carousel and their looks have gone to the point where the top tier guys are not picking them, then that's when they find a beta male to settle down with. Anyone got the carousel picture? It got posted on here once.
 
i dont think of what was described in the op as "dating", more like bed hopping.

trying to find somebody to actually date is a pain in the ass, to me anyways. the moment people realize they're not getting nudes and sex out of you they fuck right off out of there, because an actual relationship is not what they're looking for :/ i just don't bother with it anymore. either it's some horny person trying to use you to get off, or it's somebody i simply don't like, so eh.

Agreed.

Getting laid is easier than ever. Not sure if it's all these sites or just random sex is the culture norm these days.

Either way I think it's harder to find a chick that shares the same values and morals.
 
i dont think of what was described in the op as "dating", more like bed hopping.

trying to find somebody to actually date is a pain in the ass, to me anyways. the moment people realize they're not getting nudes and sex out of you they fuck right off out of there, because an actual relationship is not what they're looking for :/ i just don't bother with it anymore. either it's some horny person trying to use you to get off, or it's somebody i simply don't like, so eh.

It's not very realistic to treat sex and relationship as mutually exclusive.
 
Please explain.
Just seems in the last few decades its gone from online dating being the exception, something only losers and weirdos who couldn't get a date in "real life" did to the rule, where now the only people who don't are luddites and those too ugly to pull using their own pics.

I'm not on Facebook so I'll leave my prospects for online dating as an exercise to the reader.
 
Just seems in the last few decades its gone from online dating being the exception, something only losers and weirdos who couldn't get a date in "real life" did to the rule, where now the only people who don't are luddites and those too ugly to pull using their own pics.

I'm not on Facebook so I'll leave my prospects for online dating as an exercise to the reader.

Yeah, there was an episode of 2 and 1/2 Men dealing with the fact that Allen was hiding the fact that he was online looking for a date. This was mid-to-late 2000s. I know that there are less people in bars, when compared to 4-5 years ago, looking to meet people.
 
Thread title says dating, but actual post is about having casual sex. If you are talking about casual sex, yes, internet makes it much easier to find hook ups. But if you are talking about actual dating, I think it's relatively the same.
 
Just seems in the last few decades its gone from online dating being the exception, something only losers and weirdos who couldn't get a date in "real life" did to the rule, where now the only people who don't are luddites and those too ugly to pull using their own pics.

I'm not on Facebook so I'll leave my prospects for online dating as an exercise to the reader.
Well that is your view and that is fine. But what people like you do not realize is online dating allows you to meet people that you probably would not meet ever without it. For instance I had a date with a girl in Long Island and we probably would have never met considering she never goes anywhere past LI and I hardly ever leave CT. Then there are all the others I have dated. How would I have met them? At a bar? What makes you so sure we would end up at the same bar? Think about it.
 
I've heard of that being talked about in other forums, even in body building forums/fit forums. The top tier guys are getting most of the girls. But when the girls get tired of riding the dick carousel and their looks have gone to the point where the top tier guys are not picking them, then that's when they find a beta male to settle down with. Anyone got the carousel picture? It got posted on here once.

Curious about said carousel picture. Can't find it when I google. But then again I'm not sure what I'm looking for.
 
Curious about said carousel picture. Can't find it when I google. But then again I'm not sure what I'm looking for.

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i don't think dating is easier, i think dating as a concept is dead, or at least radically different than what it used to be.

and then try being white and dating in asia. #whiteprivilegeisreal
 
Meh, I've seen/heard the same thing from men. And I know as dudes you guys don't think of it as being the same, that a promiscuous dude that has had countless partners isn't as bad as a woman who has done the same, but to me it is. Actually I view the men in a worse way, whereas with the women I don't care lol. It's not the sex though, I've said this before, but it's the lifestyle and the behavior that had to have taken place in order to achieve that, and that's very off putting to me.

Also, let's not play that after guys who regularly spend nights getting wrecked partying look all that hot either. Unless somebody is actually doing something to look after themselves they're gonna look like shit by the end of it. And there's very few people who do that, so.

People like to have their fun, but eventually they're going to start feeling lonely and craving deeper connections with people than one night stands. That's fine. Hopefully they'll find somebody. Doesn't mean you or I have to be the ones to date them though lol.
 
As I got older my game got better.

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I am also a man so, fertility is different then for women. I think with tinder and IRL cuz the fact that a lot of women are priding themselves skiing down cocks it makes it easier to pull. I have pulled girls in coffee shops, the gym, and on the treadmill. It's too easy these days. I am not saying I don't strike out. I do. I just go slam her friends.

It's valentines day weekend. I don't want to sound too cocky but I will crunch a bunch of girls this weekend. I will bump this next week. Stay tuned ladies and gentlemen.

TS let me add some more.

The difference is that, for us boys, we develop swagger over time. Think of a fighters prime? Women reach theirs fast and it's gone usually having been cheered off a cliff (dick, drinking, drugs, fast food, does not lift etc). Dudes get swagger over time. Get options. Have choice. It comes. Sloot is dodgey? Cool. Is her sis? Her friends?

#come@mebrah

A chick on tinder in her mid 20s caption stated, she wanted 35 + unless aesthetic. 5yrs from #donotwant

not being mean but the words expiration come to mind. I am nearly 30 in a few years and my age women is a turn off.
 
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I'm 31 now and I'm married. Don't have the great opportunity of enjoy those pleasures that Tinder and stuff like that gave us. :confused:

A woman had a pic of her dildo war chest in her display on tinder. A lot if women are sloots and slobs these days. In display, the caption should read, best before ......!
 
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oh no. where's the fun in that?

i'd rather jack than do a prostitute.

+1

Then again, what is the difference with paying for dates? May as well get an escort and throw some midgets (wolf reference ).

I don't date. Netflix and chill. Women suggest movies. It's always implied indirectly. Disclaimer : no means no.

Advice? One girl isn't down and another one is.

#next

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As some said I think getting laid is easier but mantaining a relationship is harder.
 
As some said I think getting laid is easier but mantaining a relationship is harder.

Likely true but that likely has to do with the quality or lack there of. What value us in the relationship; drinks like her father. Cannot find the stove let alone turn it on. In a room full of friends, she has fucked more then half. It's the entitlement that is such a turn off and it's purely ego of a girl that has the goods. As she loses it she becomes a victim. New girls turn 18 or 21 (pending laws in your state).

Women are being cheered off the cliff. The behavior and shitty lifestyle choices are not even questioned. Also, a lot get addicted to the roller coaster of emotions they get from sone guys. Little does she know, she just torched her youth.

Anyway, being logical is not ideal for smashing skanks. It's not practical. Keep things light. Have fun. Have a laugh. The need to break the ice and insert my ridiculousness takes priority over trying to impress or play it safe. Women like carefree. It's pretty much just a series of trial and error.
 
Since having got Tinder I got laid a lot. I think people using it as a hooking up app, and use the "date" to see if there are deal breakers. I was actually looking for someone more special than that, but hey, who am I to turn down casual sex!?
 
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