I’ve talked about how I’ve gotten better at game and picking up chicks in previous threads, but I still have some trouble in one particular aspect: giving off a casual, sexual vibe. As in I don’t have many one night stands or casual encounters with no strings attached. If I hit it off with a woman, she tends to really like me as my biggest strength is presence and being genuine. What I lack in looks, height, or financial achievements, I make up for in being “real” and as present as I can. I can tell women are perplexed by me and if they like me quite a lot, sometimes a bit more than I would like. I like that they like me, but I could do without the intensity. This sounds like I’m tooting my own horn, and I do like the affect I can have on women, but I am also envious of the guys who can often get laid casually with women who understand that it’s casual. I’ve only had that a few times but most of the time there’s more emotional investment and time involved. I sometimes feel swamped with dates, which leaves me less time to work out, play Hearts of Iron 4 or Overwatch with my friends, and to work on myself. Perhaps I’m not sexually aggressive enough or I invariably go for women who aren’t down for casual encounters. The types who are down may not find me attractive. I don’t want to lie or hurt people. Most attempts at being extremely direct and honest about this have been met with skepticism or doubt. I literally told one chick that I was very much attracted to her but I just wanted to fuck with no strings attached and she seemed down initially, but later changed her mind. Any advice from my fellow sherdog brahs?