Girls go after you, or you after that?

[90 50]

This came to my attention in another thread, and wondering if anyone else had the same weird phenomenon.

I never realized it until now, but EVERY SINGLE long term relationship I have ever been in, the girl was the one who came after me. ALL OF THEM

Ive picked up a lot of girls and gone after a bunch, and dated a bunch. It seems like the ones I really really liked too much from the get go didn’t pan out.

And the ones I did have long relationships with all cane after me, both initially and keeping it together.

fucking weird.

 

[DaleBoca]

Sounds like you want to venture out to the other sex. Good for you, pal.

 

[JabToucher]

I go after them. Persistence is key.

 

[Oliver Clothesoff]

Lol. I'm the opposite. The ONLY good relationship I've had was the one I went after myself and I was sober at the time. Most of the others I was drunk and horny and took the first thing that threw herself at me. Just another data point for your study.

 

[-Magua-]

A couple were like that, because I was skeered to make the move. These days though, I’ll only make a move only if welcomed in first.

That’s where I hope I’m reading signs right and not dyslexic.

 

[loyalyolayal]

Define "girls".

 

[fungi]

I go after them. Persistence is key.

That's a proper longdong lad right there.

 

[Texan6533]

Kind of weird now that you mention it; Had several relationships with girls that came after me but the only girl I went after ended up being my wife. Probably something to that.

 

[IloveTHIS]

I only court girls that make the move.

I will be the one to ask for secks, but not the one that asks them to get srs.


Definitely an ego/superiority complex but owell. its worked alright so far

 

[Merlotte's]

Woman have to take number and wait in line to see me so hit that with a side of spam and rice bitch.

 

[90 50]

Kind of weird now that you mention it; Had several relationships with girls that came after me but the only girl I went after ended up being my wife. Probably something to that.

That’s probably why im in my 40’s and never married.
The good wife ones I was after I went after too hard or something and the ones i blew off cake after me harder until they stuck around.

 

[fingercuffs]

In terms of serious relationships it's been me to initiate, even when I was like 14 and my crush had left school already. That one didn't quite work out, gosh darn it. He was gorgeous.

 

[90 50]

Woman have to take number and wait in line to see me so hit that with a side of spam and rice bitch.

That’s kinda how I was too for a long long time.

I’ve always been very good looking and looked younger than I am up until 6 months ago. I’ve aged like ten years in six months.

life’s been fucked up lately and it’s taking its toll on me.

 

[90 50]

Sounds like you want to venture out to the other sex. Good for you, pal.

How you got that out of my post I’ll never know.

 

[dc007]

When I go after them, it's better and I'm more interested. When they come after me, I'll date but wont commit.

 

[DaleBoca]

How you got that out of my post I’ll never know.

You said it with your eyes.

 

[gspieler]

Lol, I totally misinterpreted what the OP meant.

 

[Estemachine]

This came to my attention in another thread, and wondering if anyone else had the same weird phenomenon.

I never realized it until now, but EVERY SINGLE long term relationship I have ever been in, the girl was the one who came after me. ALL OF THEM

Ive picked up a lot of girls and gone after a bunch, and dated a bunch. It seems like the ones I really really liked too much from the get go didn’t pan out.

And the ones I did have long relationships with all cane after me, both initially and keeping it together.

fucking weird.

I can kind of agree with this, when you chase a woman you are coming from a mindset of "lack"which is extremely unattractive to anyone, if you instead rather live your life, make it fun for yourself, you follow your passions, dreams and have hobbies it can make you way more attractive because you are complete and lack nothing, therefore woman who are open and receptive can pick up on your vibe and become the chasers themselves.

 

[Cole train]

I go after them

And then i get rejected lol

 

[Fedorgasm]

This came to my attention in another thread, and wondering if anyone else had the same weird phenomenon.

I never realized it until now, but EVERY SINGLE long term relationship I have ever been in, the girl was the one who came after me. ALL OF THEM

Ive picked up a lot of girls and gone after a bunch, and dated a bunch. It seems like the ones I really really liked too much from the get go didn’t pan out.

And the ones I did have long relationships with all cane after me, both initially and keeping it together.

fucking weird.

Shit I never thought about it but I'm the same way. All the girls that I chased either rejected me or it turned into a short fling. All my long term relationships were when the girl chased me.