Ok, this will probably be my last post in here unless you guys have any more questions.
We had a pretty good talk last night. Basically how I went about it was I complained that it "seemed she was acting this way" which somewhat matched what she had written in her book, but not enough to make it obvious that I had read anything. My main complaints were that she wasn't as affectionate with me and didn't seem to be as invested in the relationship as I am.
We concluded that she does feel the same way as me, she just expresses herself differently, and for some reason I've been especially aware of that lately. She has been having some problems with some of her friends but she assured me that any negative feelings she was having were not about me, and that as a rule I was an exception to things like that. She also promised to try to express herself more explicitly, because she knew the feeling of one person trying harder than the other and how fatiguing it can be.
She was very understanding, and was surprisingly upset that I wasn't 100% satisfied with the relationship. It seems my concerns were over-stated.
Obviously I didn't say shit about reading the book lol.
So there you have it, I'll keep an eye on things still but we seem to be okay. Thanks everyone for the comments and insight, if they weren't any good for brainstorming they at least gave me a laugh, this place is usually good for one of those things, although not often both at once.
Peace.
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