It did take me quite a while to respond, and again it has. Because the reality is that this isn't as imporant to me as it is to you. I'll be cut and dry because although im sure you'll have something more to say, im pretty done with the conversation.
So here it is: You're in a state of cognitive dissonance. You claim to be against exactly what comprises your persona. Fad movements, memes, buzz words. None of these movements will benefit you, only thinking for yourself will. Forming your own unique insights and opinions. Few people hate women, and a equal amount of women hate me. These people are so few in number that we do not need to bring them into question, they're outliers and not worth speaking of. By propogating such movements more broadly as you have, you seek to increase the size of the group that is upsetting you? This is what im talking about. Being overzealous and over-eager to call these things out degrades society and you as a person (and again paradoxically, people fall into this trap because feeling a part of something artificially increases self esteeem.) In this particular case throwing the word mysogynst around as feminist historically have, creates an atmosphere where people are afraid to be honest in their opinions about women. There are bad women and good women, just like bad men and good men. Throwing labls around carries weight and is a tool of communism if you want to get to the root of how damaging to society it is.
I'm speeding through this and not adding a great deal of context because A. either this will all be lost on you, or B. you will take the initiative to either accept the truths you already know to be true or do some researching and soul searching to verify my claims. Most likely (in my opinion) is C. more derision from you. However you handle this, it's ok, for me this interaction is not going to be of any immediate consequence in my life. I take this time because I've come to the understanding that making effort toward good things is good for the soul. If at any time within this post you felt insulted, know that I ever spoke with the aim of insulting you. To close out, I wish you the best, I hope this meant something to you God willing. If not, my genuine effort leaves me satisfied here, I control only my own self.