Do you miss your ex?

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And wish things took at the time different course to avoid break up?

I am talking now at the scenarios where you were at fault.

I had relationship like that, met few girls before and after and none of them treated me as good as she did. And I did fucked up by not doing something what I should've done (don't really wanna go to details but none of us cheated if thats what u think)
It eventually led to total contact breakdown to the point that she changed number, then she moved and I have no contact with her for the last few years.

And it fucking hurts man. Especially when she appears in a dream while you sleep. Mad, how one dream can turn your day into a crap. I moved since but dreams like that is like a 20 year old wound that still hurts from time to time.

So a wise advise; If you feel she's the one go for it. Don't mess up.
 
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I had 2 important relationships aside from current in my life. My first ever GF and my redhead crazy ex I wrote about couple of years ago.
My first GF is a very nice girl, but I think we are better off having parted our ways, not much of a long term compatibility between us. She has a husband and a little baby daughter now, I am very happy for her.
My crazy redhead ex I don't miss because she didn't treat me very well, but I do miss her spectacular tits from time to time.
 
An important part in moving on from your ex is seeking closure and then knowing I fucked her that night you guys argued
 
I don't miss any of them, but I do wish I treated them better and acted like a more mature man. So that no matter what happens, I can say I gave them my all and loved them truly. But the reality is that I did not, and that is probably why I have baggage leftover from those relationships.
 
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ToxicShocker said:
An important part in moving on from your ex is seeking closure and then knowing I fucked her that night you guys argued
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Really wanted to think that way, but unfortunately root cause lied elsewhere (no, not my dick lol)
 
I just posted a thread breaking up with my 4-yr relationship...


I miss her :(
 
No not at all!

What a stupid thread and stupid question to bring up...

Why would I miss her? What's that all about. Don't be ridiculous ffs... Man up...

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Nameless King said:
And wish things took at the time different course to avoid break up?

I am talking now at the scenarios where you were at fault.

I had relationship like that, met few girls before and after and none of them treated me as good as she did. And I did fucked up by not doing something what I should've done (don't really wanna go to details but none of us cheated if thats what u think)
It eventually led to total contact breakdown to the point that she changed number, then she moved and I have no contact with her for the last few years.

And it fucking hurts man. Especially when she appears in a dream while you sleep. Mad, how one dream can turn your day into a crap. I moved since but dreams like that is like a 20 year old wound that still hurts from time to time.

So a wise advise; If you feel she's the one go for it. Don't mess up.
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Wow. She totally ghosted you, huh? That's got to hurt because you have no sense of closure because she changed her number & disappeared. And, it's been how many years now? And, you're still having vivid dreams about her?
I'm sorry, man. I totally feel for you.
Maybe you could reach out to mutual friends who might be able to give you her e-mail address or something? Just so you could write to her & try to explain yourself & apologize for your past actions. That might give you the closure that you seek so that you can move on emotionally.
Best of luck.
 
ssBaldy said:
I had 2 important relationships aside from current in my life. My first ever GF and my redhead crazy ex I wrote about couple of years ago.
My first GF is a very nice girl, but I think we are better off having parted our ways, not much of a long term compatibility between us. She has a husband and a little baby daughter now, I am very happy for her.
My crazy redhead ex I don't miss because she didn't treat me very well, but I do miss her spectacular tits from time to time.
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I had a Filipina girlfriend that was nuts. Make up sex was great. Would argue with her and then make up. Would sleep for two hours and go to work. I couldn't handle that now. Do miss that butt though.
 
I had ex's I missed. A couple to the point of embarrassment in retrospect. I'm over all that though. It takes time.

You got to learn to forgive.
 
sweetviolenturg said:
Wow. She totally ghosted you, huh? That's got to hurt because you have no sense of closure because she changed her number & disappeared. And, it's been how many years now? And, you're still having vivid dreams about her?
I'm sorry, man. I totally feel for you.
Maybe you could reach out to mutual friends who might be able to give you her e-mail address or something? Just so you could write to her & try to explain yourself & apologize for your past actions. That might give you the closure that you seek so that you can move on emotionally.
Best of luck.
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Our last moments ended in heated arguments, she was sure about her arguments and I was sure about mine, but when I sit down and eventually realised I was at fault it was too late. I never introduced her to my friends only sister and parents at home, and her friends were sort of 'hi, bye' friends which I never seen again except one girl few months after which told me she moved and that she also lost contact with her. I think main issue was the silence after argument or I should say series of arguments which probably became too lengthy...It's really complicated matter, but like I said I recalled those arguments number of times, I read final texts and no it was my fault. And I did moved on, believe or not. She crosses my mind now and then but those fucking dreams man are the worst. They always become so emotional, all the freaking time.
 
CodeBreaker said:
I just posted a thread breaking up with my 4-yr relationship...


I miss her :(
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And, you know what? You're going to continue to do so for quite some time. You'll probably be feeling this way for a couple/few months I'm sorry to say & the time will probably crawl. But, eventually, enough time will have passed where you'll feel like you're coming out of a heavy fog & life will get better.
It sucks that there's no method to speed the process up but there isn't. The only way to recover from heartbreak is to put time & distance between yourself & your ex.
 
I almost fucked up and let the one true get away, but tracked that bish down once I realised she was the best and married her.
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