Well I like myself enough to groom well and hit the gym regularly. I believe that's the basic at least.
People kind of like me because I'm quite the joker, quite a number of my friends say they are impressed how I can bullshit and entertain people and myself even on the first meeting.
But after a few meetings, unless really close friends, most of the conversions becoming "substanceless" because I'm not keen with updating with people's interests. It's bullshit and nonsense jokes that keeps going round and round for that few hours every time we meet I guess.
I'm okay overall I guess.
EDIT:
Like just last week, I met up with my friend that was hanging out in a new burger joint with his two old school mates. The four of us met each other for at least 10 times the past 5 years? I even went overseas with one of them last year. But I was zoning out 80% of the time, because the two of them were talking about Dating apps, Japanese Mangas, their new job and bullying interns. One of them was teaching the other how to get higher rating on those Apps or how to start a pickup line of sorts. I will snoozing off and watching chicks.