Social Do you get angry often?

Do you get angry often?

  • Yes

    Votes: 28 46.7%

  • No

    Votes: 32 53.3%
  • Total voters
    60
Bobby00 said:
How you say something is big part of it which does not translate over screen. Kill yourself idiot is not mild if we are talking about something small and that is your go to you probably should be on some goverment watchlist no offense. I never told anyone to kill themselves that is mental i have witnessed suicide in family and friends not while i was there but i knew them and now they dont exist.
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I meant as in randomly online. In non personal interaction. Youtube comment or videogame. Not in person. Noone killed themselves cause someone random they don't know online told them kys. You gotta see the real reason. It's not a random youtube comment.
 
Bobby00 said:
Guess a missunderstanding on my part. I thought you meant in real life.
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I mean saying it online feels illegal too. Not suprised by your reaction. Irl obviously just saying small things already is mean / angry. Also online it's different if it's whatsapp/instagram, if it's sherdog or if it's random video game chat or throw away youtube account.

I'll just say something mean if it's like a video game rage moment and I'm being provoced. I don't know it's whatever. It's rare that I'll rage. Not sure if I'm saying kys at all. That's pretty anti social even for random video games.

In person or whatsapp I don't even say you're stupid or anything like that. Gotta have respect.

If someone is on my friends list in videogames I don't even critisize their plays let alone say a bad word. Earned respect.
 
If i am sleep deprived, yeah don't mess with me.
 
I used to when I was younger. These days ive discovered thar apathy and indifference is a far better path to self-hood.
 
Every time that I used to open reddit I was getting angry. Deleted that platform.
Contempt said:
Nah, I'm pretty chill these days... then again, i barely leave the house when not working and if I feel mad at something I can go hug a baby labrador... seems to be highly effective at chilling me out... also alcohol.
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Gotta slow down the bottle brother, also love me some labrador.
 
I don't often get angry about personal stuff, petty squabbles and disagreements.

The older I get the angrier I've become at big systemic issues, corruption, exploitation of the masses.
 
Versez said:
Every time that I used to open reddit I was getting angry. Deleted that platform.

Gotta slow down the bottle brother, also love me some labrador.
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I only ever drink one or two nights a week and even then I've cut down how much I drink by quite a bit. No big deal.
 
Takes Two To Tango said:
I use to when I was in my 20s, not as much anymore.

I try to stay even keel if possible. Not too high or too low.

Best way to approach things I believe.
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Not as much as I used to. I make a conscious effort now to control my emotions.

And having cancer taught me to appreciate what I have. So it takes something pretty bad to make me angry. I'm more likely to lose my shit over something bad happening to people I care about than to myself.
 
As i got older i realized its a waste of time to suffer fools and get angry at things i cannot either control or change. Now i watch people in their 20's etc get mad about everything and think someone's gonna stroke out. Especially road rage. Its worthless to endanger yourself or family to move 3 car lengths etc. People will alway kill each other over stupid things its just Darwinism
 
Driving angers me. I really wish it didn't. As i've gotten older i've realized what a waste of time getting angry over little things is. I have gotten better about being calmer, but for some reason driving does it.
 
Kraysla said:
Driving angers me. I really wish it didn't. As i've gotten older i've realized what a waste of time getting angry over little things is. I have gotten better about being calmer, but for some reason driving does it.
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I used to be, until I had an incident maybe 15 years ago where I gave a guy the finger and he slowed down and offered me to the side of the road. Let's just say it was basically Shane Carwin ha ha, I shit myself, drove off and been chill ever since, glad it happened tbh.
 
Hardly ever angry, actually think maybe something is wrong with me. I'll obviously get angry when the kids destroy the house but in public with strangers, hardly ever. I just don't care enough to bother me.
 
Never really. I do annoyed as fuck at expensive inanimate objects that don't work properly and tend to curse at them but thats about it.

I was very angry as a teenager and in my early 20s because I harbored resentment towards my family. But when I got sober at 23 I let that shit go.
 
TeTe said:
Never really. I do annoyed as fuck at expensive inanimate objects that don't work properly and tend to curse at them but thats about it.

I was very angry as a teenager and in my early 20s because I harbored resentment towards my family. But when I got sober at 23 I let that shit go.
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Yeah, I had anger at my older brother in my teens to early 20s and my Dad for an incident when I was 25 to 29.

My older brother was my bully at home and he had serious issues of his own. He made a serious, conscious effort to deal with them when he joined the paramilitary and exposed himself to his peers who came from less stress-filled families. I got my first girlfriend at 25, visited my mothers, he came along too and after Mum and her then boyfriend started arguing about what to watch on TV, we went to the local pub and properly shot the shit. I realised that even though we approached things differently, we were actually very similar, he apologised and we've been cool ever since.

My Dad divorced my mother when I was four, and he gave me a lifeline, a place to live and a job when I was struggling with social isolation, anxiety and depression when I was twenty. I took it, we argued badly about three months in and he had me move into a bedsit in another town, which, despite initial protest, was actually a lot better. I moved back in a year later when he wanted me to move into his new property and start at another airport. I stayed for a few years but we were both struggling with different things, had a huge argument at the age of twenty-six and he kicked me out again, but I left as soon as he said "get out of my house you CUNT" and I told him that he was "dead to me". I found a bedsit in Ealing that was rotten but I stayed there for a year. I stopped arguing with him, but we haven't been the same, as I realised that I idolised the wrong person growing up. I held the bitterness in but only really let it go when my little sister was born, and realised that I was too old to have daddy issues.

It's all complicated. I do wish that I handled things better, especially because now I'm doing a lot better, but I'm thirty eight now. No animosity.
 
Definitely when I'm driving. So many bad drivers out there.
 
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