I ain't that tall, bout 6'5-6". I definitely find short women attractive, it's fun being able to chuck em about. But also really tall women have something special about them. I've dated 5'2"-6'2".
I guess the power dynamic being skewed or equal is more interesting, but it's never been why I've got with someone, it's always been because they are attractive, and much more importantly think I am!
It's probably explained by women bring more average in height and everything else. Men vary more and the tall ones tend to win.