I wished a lot of my female relatives and female friends on Facebook Happy Valentine's Day by writing to each of them. Most of them wrote back or hit the like button with the notable exception of a cousin that I have been very close with most of my life. I spent most of my childhood with her and her family. We are all grown up now with kids and grand kids so we don't see each other as much but up until her dad died our families spent Thanksgiving and Christmas together. She came and lived with us when she was 14 and acting wild. Her parents wanted her around my mother because she adored my mother so this is not like some distant cousin. Anyway, it's totally bizarre and I feel dissed!