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Anyone have a difficult friend?
I have this friend I have known for almost 30 years. It's always been a struggle but lately it's too much.
At what point do you give up? I gave up once but he pestered me for a month until I relented. It's always the same, he is right, you are wrong, you do or say bad things that hurt his feelings.
He jumped my shit because I didn't comment on one of his vids. He implied I was a hypocrite because I complain about the same thing. At the time he told me he can't watch youtube because his internet sucks and youtube buffers so much he can't watch vids.
I would reply to his emails about bizarre shit like the Illuminati even though I couldn't care less.I only did it because he's been a friend since HS. I have seen his darkest days, trust me. He never replied back. No problem, who's counting anyway? Well, he was. At one point he replied to an email I had sent to him then 10 hrs later he told me he didn't get the email, so what was it? You see? I was so confused I didn't know whether to shit or go blind yet I am the bad guy and hypocrite because I didn't comment on one of his videos? I've had it.
I have been thinking about it. I don't give a fuck any more. I stopped having anything to do with him 3 years ago because of this shit. I only gave in after he begged me. Even then he passively assigned blame to me.
To put this in to perspective, his own brother hates him and has not had any thing to do with him for 20 years. He will not let his son have any relationship with my friend. Imagine that, your own brother won't let his son know you.
When I was at my lowest (I have MS) I asked him to go to the store for me. This was years ago. He came over to my house but said he would only drive me he would not go inside. I said I needed him to go in and buy some things for me. He refused. That's a selfish prick right there. Anyway, we are not perfect but enough of this shit. I'm done.
OK, sorry about the rant.
I have this friend I have known for almost 30 years. It's always been a struggle but lately it's too much.
At what point do you give up? I gave up once but he pestered me for a month until I relented. It's always the same, he is right, you are wrong, you do or say bad things that hurt his feelings.
He jumped my shit because I didn't comment on one of his vids. He implied I was a hypocrite because I complain about the same thing. At the time he told me he can't watch youtube because his internet sucks and youtube buffers so much he can't watch vids.
I would reply to his emails about bizarre shit like the Illuminati even though I couldn't care less.I only did it because he's been a friend since HS. I have seen his darkest days, trust me. He never replied back. No problem, who's counting anyway? Well, he was. At one point he replied to an email I had sent to him then 10 hrs later he told me he didn't get the email, so what was it? You see? I was so confused I didn't know whether to shit or go blind yet I am the bad guy and hypocrite because I didn't comment on one of his videos? I've had it.
I have been thinking about it. I don't give a fuck any more. I stopped having anything to do with him 3 years ago because of this shit. I only gave in after he begged me. Even then he passively assigned blame to me.
To put this in to perspective, his own brother hates him and has not had any thing to do with him for 20 years. He will not let his son have any relationship with my friend. Imagine that, your own brother won't let his son know you.
When I was at my lowest (I have MS) I asked him to go to the store for me. This was years ago. He came over to my house but said he would only drive me he would not go inside. I said I needed him to go in and buy some things for me. He refused. That's a selfish prick right there. Anyway, we are not perfect but enough of this shit. I'm done.
OK, sorry about the rant.