No decent, self respecting man will put up with that kind of obvious fermenting demonic personality disorder for more than a day and a half, if that.
Ronda lashes out and puts her personal demons on display in hopes someone can come along and fix it all. Impossible, because it's mostly her job and she refuses. She's strong in all ways but that one, giant, gaping, vital & key personal dimension. It's poisoning her but she's too cool, too important all a sudden to admit she has a problem (which you need to do before you can fix anything).
You're both right