Did I get sexually harassed?

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  1. Pugilistic

    Pugilistic Red Belt

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    At my gym there's this old guy who likes to walk around, look at people working out and make comments and say random shit. Dude's a nuisance because he moves stuff around and never puts them back where they belong. I've seen him eyeball me a few times because I'm one of the few people at this gym who lifts heavy. Today I was my heavy squat day and he was once again prowling the gym and stopping to look at me for a bit. Weird.

    He was in the locker room chatting with another old guy when I got out of the shower. I'm not crazy jacked but I gotta say I'm decently yoked. Dude looks me up and down and goes to the other guy, "This guy has a good body. I see him do lower body work outs all the time."
    I just give him an awkward smile and nod in acknowledgement. He continues, "Look at those thick thighs and that good butt."
    I'm just like, o_O
    "Legs and butt are important a man."
    I get dressed as fast I can while thinking, 'Is this guy checking out my ass?'

    Did I get sexually harassed by an old man? #metoo?
     
  2. Benjamin Burton

    Benjamin Burton Brown Belt

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    its this dude all grown up
     
  3. hiphopnazi

    hiphopnazi Brown Belt

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    I think you should wait 10-15 years then report it.

    He was probably surprised you were in the mens being you're women.
     
  4. Strychnine

    Strychnine Gold Belt

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    Just let him bang bro.
     
  5. Boomslang

    Boomslang Blue Belt

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    You should have tased him.
     
  6. spin_

    spin_ Gold Belt

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    you were the naked one, so

    might be you that sexually harassed him.
     
  7. Lights Out 101

    Lights Out 101 Brown Belt

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  8. Pugilistic

    Pugilistic Red Belt

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    We were all naked bro. I usually try not to make eye contact or talk to anybody when I'm naked in the locker.
     
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  9. Merlotte's

    Merlotte's Silver Belt

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    Man was old not autistic.
     
  10. JabToucher

    JabToucher Brown Belt

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    Your didn't have to come up with a story just to let us know you lift heavy dude!


    But seriously, the worst thing you could of done is let on that he's made you feel uncomfortable!
    Your success from lifting was rendered useless in that moment after he seized control making you feel weirded out.
     
  11. ToxicShocker

    ToxicShocker Double Yellow Card Double Yellow Card

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    Interesting dilemma. Its not sexual harassment if it wasn't sexual. Whether or not you made the old man hard is just one of life's little mysteries
     
  12. JabToucher

    JabToucher Brown Belt

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    That's just a young Brian Redban.
     
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  13. fonzob1

    fonzob1 Silver Belt

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    Do you work out at the YMCA?
     
  14. JOE QUEEF

    JOE QUEEF I am The Dragon . Platinum Member

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  15. SSgt Dickweed

    SSgt Dickweed Black Belt

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    I was just admiring your butt and thighs bro, nothing wrong with that. You should flaunt that merch in front of willing buyers, you know what I mean?
     
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  16. OMGstreetfight

    OMGstreetfight Fred Loya Insurance shill

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    If you have to ask... you're a pussy. A compliment is a compliment. Sometimes gay dudes need to put themselves out there to try. Or he is fascinated with the male form. Gym rats forget that people don't see bodies the way they do. They obsess over it.
     
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  17. KONG-D'SNT-TAP

    KONG-D'SNT-TAP Yellow Card Yellow Card

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    You should let him eat your ass after a heavy squat day.
     
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  18. Mixedfights

    Mixedfights Silver Belt

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    I thought this was going another way.

    I was going to respond but I got nothin on dudes comin at me like that.

    Except when I went to the wrong bar in England. No rainbow flag out front so they can go fuck off.

    If there is a line for the mens restroom...GTFO of there.
     
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  19. GergreG

    GergreG Blue Belt

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    I didn't have a bad experience at the Korean spas when I was there but it was definitely a difficult place to navigate, with no Korean language skills.
    I went with my family and in the men's section I really enjoyed the different baths but when it was time to go back in the locker room I'm like "where are the fucking clean towels". I asked the first bloke who came past me and he didn't understand what I was talking about. I really enjoyed a few of the family saunas we went to.
     
  20. sissypunch

    sissypunch I've got a small dick, and i'm an asshole.

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    TS gets his #metoo moment, look forward to seeing his interview on The View.
     

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