I'm actually an American expatriate living in a small gated community by the coast south of the California border. But yeah, as @Mortal Wombat has mentioned, I drive a non-fancy pickup truck and dress very casual, and I don't mingle with anybody with connections to the cartels, so I guess I can say that I'm relatively safe from the violence.
We're the same age, but by your lifestyle I would have assumed you're retired! Kudos, brother!