Maybe you play more twitchy than I do. I honestly just don't notice a big difference. Especially because I almost always mid-roll in Souls games.
I've seen you talk about Estus healing and again, it just doesn't feel that delayed. Especially when coming from DS2 where fucking everything had a drawn out animation. This feels so much better than the last game.
BB is king for me in terms of mechanics, I just didn't expect DS3 to play the same way at all. And the weird thing is that I feel like this is the most fast paced of the Souls series.