I made a thread earlier this week in regards to an incident that happened between a relative and after some soul searching and looking back I realized I have some severe flaws that are getting in a way of a better future. For example: Procrastination: I tend to think that once I figure out or get everything to be perfect then I won't take action or I over-analyze things and find negative scenarios that it might backfire or its a bad idea and that I should just be happy with what I have. Worrying/Anxiety: I find that everything has to be perfect, if anything goes wrong then thats it I failed, when I viewed this character flaw of mine, I was enraged with myself since this type of behaviour is shared by chicks who want to have the "perfect" wedding day. Excessive Assumption: sometimes I get angry at little things and I start over-analyzing it other than letting it go and looking to take control of my actions for a better future. Its more like "what did he mean by that" "What was that suppose to mean?" Overthinking: ofcourse everything I wrote comes from the same source which is overthinking, its good that I think but I don't take enough actions to make a profoundly positive change in my own life. I am doing everything I can to change these behaviours and become a better person like going to see a hypnotherapist to see if I can somehow change my pattern of thoughts. So with that in mind, what about you guys, what kind of personality flaws do you guys have that hinders your potential for a better future as well as a better relationship?