Boon or bane?

Developed nations outside of Israel have an unsustainable birth rate because they are so low, and this causes a lot of problems over the long term.

Unless you are referring to the developing world.

Also, strong family is correlated with strong outcomes in terms of peoples success.

In any case, it seems we're heading towards some version of Huxley's Brave New World with the breakup of the family unit as a building block of society, and a hook-up, materialist culture forming.

VR Porn is bound to have some pretty damaging psychological effects, as does regular porn.

Sure it causes problems, so does an ever increasing population.

I agree the family unit and culture serve critical functions in a functioning society.

My point is that it is Russian roulette to assume that one day our population levels will magically level off. We live in a world of finite resources and wealth. Every new mouth, is a mouth that needs to be fed.

You point to population trends in developed nations that havent existed for more then a generation. It was just 60 years ago we had the baby boomers.
 
I disagree. I think the single most selfish act I see today is people reproducing. Our planet is over populated.

Once you take reproduction out of the equation, there is no point to monogomy.
If you think monogamy and having children is selfish, just go ahead and enjoy your vr porn. We all have choices in life.
 
Wait till they perfect the female sex robot industry.

Bye bye nagging. Hello "anything you want" and "mute" buttons.

The future is looking nag free
 
If you think monogamy and having children is selfish, just go ahead and enjoy your vr porn. We all have choices in life.


The last thing we need are people like you reproducing more offspring who have been taught demons are in their computers and the earth is flat.

No one wants that person. Stop making that person
 
I knew you would say something so arbitrary. that's why I said I have nearly a decade's worth of time spent working in the industry. you always do this. "I disagree with what he's saying regardless of the points he's making so he's wrong". you do this in every conversation with literally everyone you argue with.

regardless of the 'g-rated' point, my point still stands. around these parts, New York City, GoT is NOT promoted so casually.

besides, you're Canadian. sexuality is viewed completely different over there. in Montreal they have that infamous stripper joint that's like a Walmart for crying out loud.

that's why I'm saying GoT is a poor example because it may apply as good example of raunch material specifically to you, but not the rest of the world. the Kardashians promote their trashiness on their own regardless of all other platforms that cover them.

Good grief man. Why are we having a lengthy conversation about this. It's so not worth it.
 
Porn has driven technology for a long time now so it's nothing new or unexpected that it happens with VR. I'll never understand the people that have big problems with others deriving sexual pleasure on their own, without affecting anyone else by it. If anything I'd like the stigma of religion to go away faster so we can be more open about sex (not meaning that you do it in public, but in order to have a healthier relationship to it and a better discussion around it).

Sure it causes problems, so does an ever increasing population.

I agree the family unit and culture serve critical functions in a functioning society.

My point is that it is Russian roulette to assume that one day our population levels will magically level off. We live in a world of finite resources and wealth. Every new mouth, is a mouth that needs to be fed.

The population levels will level off and we can fairly accurately predict when it happens. There's actually not an increase of children being born anymore (because the poor countries actually have been working at the issue, which many people don't know) so the coming increase of the world's population will be the poor getting better living standards and therefor living longer. Of course that still means several more billion people until we've reached the peak, so it's still unsustainable to live like we westerners do.
 
Israel has a high birth rate because of religious arabs and jews, the educated jews arent having that many kids, which is completely unsustainable in the long term.

I think even the secular population has replacement level (2-2.1), but certainly the religious population accounts for the big increases.

So it has a lot to do with values and culture.
 
Good grief man. Why are we having a lengthy conversation about this. It's so not worth it.


nah I know, I was about to say I'm done, there's no point.

I am a huge GoT fan though. I read literally all 5 books & short stories about 5 times each so far. I reread them every time because there's always a new puzzle piece to put together each read, seriously. the story is that deep.

I'd recommend you quit watching the show, & give the books a read first. then follow up on the show again. you'll see how HBO pointlessly sexualized a lot of it & it's a fun read altogether regardless.

I may have ebook collection on my dropbox for download if you do the ebook thing.
 
Porn has driven technology for a long time now so it's nothing new or unexpected that it happens with VR. I'll never understand the people that have big problems with others deriving sexual pleasure on their own, without affecting anyone else by it. If anything I'd like the stigma of religion to go away faster so we can be more open about sex (not meaning that you do it in public, but in order to have a healthier relationship to it and a better discussion around it).



The population levels will level off and we can fairly accurately predict when it happens. There's actually not an increase of children being born anymore (because the poor countries actually have been working at the issue, which many people don't know) so the coming increase of the world's population will be the poor getting better living standards and therefor living longer. Of course that still means several more billion people until we've reached the peak, so it's still unsustainable to live like we westerners do.

You have a one generation trend, that is being used to build a model.

In terms of science, and standards of evidence, that is worth the Charmin extra soft I wipe my arse with.
 
I think even the secular population has replacement level (2-2.1), but certainly the religious population accounts for the big increases.

So it has a lot to do with values and culture.

It has all to do with religious fervor, secular jews are being overtaken virtually everywhere.
 
nah I know, I was about to say I'm done, there's no point.

I am a huge GoT fan though. I read literally all 5 books & short stories about 5 times each so far. I reread them every time because there's always a new puzzle piece to put together each read, seriously. the story is that deep.

I'd recommend you quit watching the show, & give the books a read first. then follow up on the show again. you'll see how HBO pointlessly sexualized a lot of it & it's a fun read altogether regardless.

I may have ebook collection on my dropbox for download if you do the ebook thing.

I didn't mind it too much, but then fell behind and left it. It is cruder though than most other shows outside of maybe Shameless. I kept up with The Walking Dead and Breaking Bad til it finished, both of which I liked a lot more anyway. Some time if I have time I may pick it up again. I do wish GOT wasn't quite so crass on some things, but that's probably moot and maybe part of it's appeal. Thanks for the offer.
 
If you think monogamy and having children is selfish, just go ahead and enjoy your vr porn. We all have choices in life.
If I'm monogamous and already have 3 kids am I allowed to watch VR porn then?
 
What's strange is how accepted spank fodder is nowadays. I work in the tech industry, and I work with some straight up nerds and they all have their favorite porn stars.
It used to be a matter of shame, now it's a matter of course.

I'm at an age (my 30's) where the men all know adult entertainment is enjoyed at times, but nobody really talks about it openly. I noticed the dudes in their 20's talk about it openly like it is the latest breaking news story.
 
I believe that porn should be banned in the USA.

Work on yourself as a man, then go out and win the heart of a real woman.

I'm with you Rip. I greatly struggle to stay away from porn (especially Japanese porn), but I would not complain if porn were banned.

What are your thought on erotic photography where the woman is naked, but there is no graphic sexual images?
 
If I'm monogamous and already have 3 kids am I allowed to watch VR porn then?
You can if you want. But porn is one of the roads to effeminacy. If your goal is to be a real man, then you will put aside porn and put aside your own pleasure. And save that sexual desire for your wife.

There's a lot of problems that come from pornography.
 
I'm with you Rip. I greatly struggle to stay away from porn (especially Japanese porn), but I would not complain if porn were banned.

What are your thought on erotic photography where the woman is naked, but there is no graphic sexual images?
Avoid it DP. You have to.

It is a struggle because it is everywhere. But you are a man and you can train yourself to avoid porn. You're smart enough to know what things you need to stay away from. If it's a website, or a link on the side of the computer screen, don't click on it. But I know it's everywhere.

If it's on sherdog, cover up the avatars with a piece of paper. Honestly I wish the mods would crack down on the porn avatars but the people who run the place want it here. So sometimes I'm actually holding a paper or my hand over the boob pics and butt crack pics as I respond to a sherdog member.
 
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VR is a fad anyway so I see this going away quickly. Although with it, the myth of going blind from too much masturbation may be true.

I'm anti-censorship so let them bang bro, but ease of access to porn likely isn't helping our society either. Although I think most aspects of the internet are destroying our society so I can't say porn is any worse.

And if you think VR porn is bad, you should read about sex dolls. The anti-feminist/MRA crowd is absolutely gleeful at the prospect of this.
 
You can if you want. But porn is one of the roads to effeminacy. If your goal is to be a real man, then you will put aside porn and put aside your own pleasure. And save that sexual desire for your wife.

There's a lot of problems that come from pornography.
We watch it together the only problem is we have slightly different tastes she likes blondes with large breasts and I like my women dark haired and feisty hence why I married her lol.
Some porn is wrong like the squirting and simulated rape stuff but normal porn is completely fine.
 
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