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Hey... I am blue belt (4stripes) in South Korea, trained bjj for 3 years and 7 months. I've been in 23 competitions here, more than times silver and bronze medalist, and 2 time champion in my weight class in blue belt division.
Recently, I got kicked out of my gym because of my former instructor. His name is Kim, a purple belt, instructor of a gym called Jiu-jitsuLock. We had a lot troubles after my blue belt promotion. He never liked me watching any grappling moves on the internet, or any black belt competition, and he always blamed me for mixing those moves from top competitors. He wanted me to 100% follow his direction, but I am a different man with him. It was difficult for me copy his techniques like Berlimbolo, Crap Ride, etc because I hip joints were never flexible. I prefered wrestling and judo takedowns, top play, and speedy guard passes, but he disliked me practicing those.
As the time went on, he started not recommending his students to spar each other. It took me 3 jours to do 5 minutes sparring for 6 times...
He then even started to not care about competitors im his team (me). Every Korean man needs to serve 2 years of military, and luckily, I served my military as some kinds of special soldier called KATUSA, so I was able to get out of base every weekend, and train BJJ, and join competition. I fought 9 competitions at that time, and most of them were failure, unlike the competitions I fought before military service, because I got fat for eating high-calories food, and training BJJ only once a week wasn't good enough at all. Despite of my competition challenge, he blamed me for not concentrating his class, and only copying moves on the internet. Moreover, he never cheered me once in these 9 competitions.
Anyway, on 23rd, Sep, 2014, on the day I finished my military service, I left this team. We concluded that our styles are our ideal idea on BJJ are different. We decided to meet each other without any grunge. And as I know, he left his team, M.A.R.C, as well.
Then I moved to Gracie Barra Korea(GBK), the team I was introduced by my former instructor when we were still okay. And joining this team was my dumbest decision ever. Anyway, I won the biggest one of the biggest championships in South Korea while practicing in this team.
The professor and instructors of GBK liked my former instructor a lot. Since he is teamless, they wanted him to join GBK as well. I didn't care at first, until my former instructor wrote something bad about me on his BJJ blog on 8th, Jan, 2015.
He depreciated my BJJ as "basic-less, internet copied techniques." He described me as the person who does not repeatedly drill techniques, and only want to use the vainglorious, flamboyant techniques. He also said that because I taught those interent-copied techniques to other people, I interrupted his class schedule...
I was so angry. My first thought was "wasn't we decided to keep a good relationship?" I countered this on facebook. I wrote "first my techniques are not internet-copied techniques, what I did was just designing the technique that best fit on me, I haved repeated these moves all days, during sparring session and drilling session." " Second, of 90% of teachings, other people asked me about my techniques first, is it a problem to teach techniques when other people asked me?"
Then, the professor of GBK read my facebook post. He kicked me out for being disrespectful to former instructor. And the former instructor and his team, JiujitsuLock, joined GBK.
Moreover, many instructors and professors of other teams, who claimed to be neutral, are just fucking blaming me. They jusitified his blog post that targeted on me.
Currently, I do not know what to do now. Some of my competitor friends are recommending me some gyms that do not care about all these bullshits, but I have no will, and energy to search for a new gym. I am also thinking of quitting BJJ as well. Is something like this happening in your places, countries as well? Do instructors justify other instructors mischievious act just they are all gym owners? Are there fucking politics there too? Man I have no idea what should I do now. I am just so sick and disgusted by the Korean BJJ society...
Recently, I got kicked out of my gym because of my former instructor. His name is Kim, a purple belt, instructor of a gym called Jiu-jitsuLock. We had a lot troubles after my blue belt promotion. He never liked me watching any grappling moves on the internet, or any black belt competition, and he always blamed me for mixing those moves from top competitors. He wanted me to 100% follow his direction, but I am a different man with him. It was difficult for me copy his techniques like Berlimbolo, Crap Ride, etc because I hip joints were never flexible. I prefered wrestling and judo takedowns, top play, and speedy guard passes, but he disliked me practicing those.
As the time went on, he started not recommending his students to spar each other. It took me 3 jours to do 5 minutes sparring for 6 times...
He then even started to not care about competitors im his team (me). Every Korean man needs to serve 2 years of military, and luckily, I served my military as some kinds of special soldier called KATUSA, so I was able to get out of base every weekend, and train BJJ, and join competition. I fought 9 competitions at that time, and most of them were failure, unlike the competitions I fought before military service, because I got fat for eating high-calories food, and training BJJ only once a week wasn't good enough at all. Despite of my competition challenge, he blamed me for not concentrating his class, and only copying moves on the internet. Moreover, he never cheered me once in these 9 competitions.
Anyway, on 23rd, Sep, 2014, on the day I finished my military service, I left this team. We concluded that our styles are our ideal idea on BJJ are different. We decided to meet each other without any grunge. And as I know, he left his team, M.A.R.C, as well.
Then I moved to Gracie Barra Korea(GBK), the team I was introduced by my former instructor when we were still okay. And joining this team was my dumbest decision ever. Anyway, I won the biggest one of the biggest championships in South Korea while practicing in this team.
The professor and instructors of GBK liked my former instructor a lot. Since he is teamless, they wanted him to join GBK as well. I didn't care at first, until my former instructor wrote something bad about me on his BJJ blog on 8th, Jan, 2015.
He depreciated my BJJ as "basic-less, internet copied techniques." He described me as the person who does not repeatedly drill techniques, and only want to use the vainglorious, flamboyant techniques. He also said that because I taught those interent-copied techniques to other people, I interrupted his class schedule...
I was so angry. My first thought was "wasn't we decided to keep a good relationship?" I countered this on facebook. I wrote "first my techniques are not internet-copied techniques, what I did was just designing the technique that best fit on me, I haved repeated these moves all days, during sparring session and drilling session." " Second, of 90% of teachings, other people asked me about my techniques first, is it a problem to teach techniques when other people asked me?"
Then, the professor of GBK read my facebook post. He kicked me out for being disrespectful to former instructor. And the former instructor and his team, JiujitsuLock, joined GBK.
Moreover, many instructors and professors of other teams, who claimed to be neutral, are just fucking blaming me. They jusitified his blog post that targeted on me.
Currently, I do not know what to do now. Some of my competitor friends are recommending me some gyms that do not care about all these bullshits, but I have no will, and energy to search for a new gym. I am also thinking of quitting BJJ as well. Is something like this happening in your places, countries as well? Do instructors justify other instructors mischievious act just they are all gym owners? Are there fucking politics there too? Man I have no idea what should I do now. I am just so sick and disgusted by the Korean BJJ society...