Hey there Hillary, I know people ask you questions every so now and often so I hope you aren't getting sick of answering! There's girl in our Jiu-Jitsu club who weighs about 120 lbs. that is having trouble dealing with the fact that she doesn't have other girls to train with in our club and that the only training partners she has are guys that are significantly bigger and stronger than she is. She's been training for about a year and is finding it difficult to cope. She see's other people that have been training the the same length that she has that are able to tap newer people with ease and is frustrated that due to her size she just isn't able to replicate that experience. Any words of wisdom that might help her to overcome this? It's really beginning to get to her and she see's you as someone that has accomplished a great deal in Jiu-Jitsu. Thanks for the feedback!