I've NEVER trained BJJ in my life but for the first time I freestyled with my buddy who locally won a BJJ tournament. The first two times we went at it he subbed me eventually because I was very aggressive from the bottom but still did pretty well considering. I asked to grapple one final time and was very defensive. He went for many submissions and I defended them all and he ended up getting my back. I could tell he was very tired (I could feel his heart beating rapidly) and I was very close to reversing him but he put his weight down on me and it was pretty much impossible to reverse him. It ended in him giving up and puking in the sink because he couldn't submit me. I weigh 160 pounds and he weighs at least 210 pounds. Can I take this as an accomplishment considering he's trained? I'm almost 100 percent sure that if we weighed the same it would have been a lot differently since his strength felt the same if not less then mine.