Relationship Am I going to be single forever?

[fingercuffs]

The amount of relationship threads you make, probably.

 

[chimpoehurricane]

Cuck is the most misused word on the Interwebs, and younger guys are absolutely obsessed with the word "cuck" or "cuckoldry" despite not knowing what they actually mean. On a site like Sherdog, the words "cuck," "incel," or "beta/alpha" are used in almost every thread. Most people never take the time to understand what these things actually are. They just know that they're something very bad or good according to insecure dudes on a karate forum.

cuck
/kək/

1. DEROGATORY•INFORMAL
   a weak or servile man (often used as a contemptuous term for a man with moderate or progressive political views).
2. 2.
   a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful; a cuckold.

A swinger is neither of those things. A weak or servile man wouldn't be getting gobs of pussy and he also wouldn't be ok with his girl openly fucking other people. A cuck is someone that's not ok with any of that but tolerates it. There's no such thing as being unfaithful in an open relationship, so there's no such thing as a cuckold in an open relationship.

Also, most dudes in the swinging community are far more into it than their wives or girlfriends. Most guys in that community date significantly younger women that are groomed for that lifestyle that also care far less about their wives/girlfriends than vise versa. That's about as far away from being a "cuck" as it gets. Also, progressive political views see women in open relationships as a commodity and view said relationships as predatory. As someone that's been a swinger for years, I will tell you straight up that hard core progressives have more of an issue with porn, strip clubs, and swinging than a lot of hard core conservatives do. The majority of individuals that take part in those communities, are neither liberal or progressive because you basically can't be.

To each their own. My best friend shits his pants every time his wife goes more than a few hours without texting him. He's constantly worried to death of infidelity, and my life absolutely scares the shit out of him. He views my life as a living hell, and I view his life as absolutely fucking exhausting. When it comes to sexuality, he has a level of insecurity that I can't wrap my mind around, while I have a level of openness that he can't wrap his mind around. He fits into the personality type you see on this forum a lot. He drives a huge truck, has a little dick, and is married to a fat chick. He sucked at sports too (particularly contact sports), yet he still views himself as an "alpha" over a guy like myself that gets more puss than he could dream about, was a stand out athlete, has a huge dick and has a level of confidence that scares him.

Clown world we live in......you do you

Letting your wife get plowed is cuck.

cuck

cuck A man who lets his wife or girlfriend have sex with other men. Often the man lets her do whatever she wants and treat him like shit. (Short version of cuckold) John watched his wife get fucked by another man. What a cuck!

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cuck

But thank you for your wall of text.

 

[chimpoehurricane]

Yes. Statistically speaking there are going to be single dudes forever:

The population of females in the world is estimated at 3,904,727,342 or 3,905 million or 3.905 billion, representing 49.58% of the world population. The world has 65,511,048 or 65.51 million more males than females. Gender Ratio in the World in 2021 is 101.68 males per 100 females.

Better get used to it OP.

That is the mating call of the loser. Status quo. Body positivity. The village bicycle and the divorce machine. The population is below average, over weight, obese or fat AF. The solution isn't to settle with a skank or accept the shit sandwich like most chumps. It's to make something of yourself. Yes, there are going to be single dudes and incels forever. They are NPCs. They like the guy with the wall of text trying to explain away cuckoldry settle for these outcomes. Closing in on a hundred years of feminism. Proud single mom and body positivity. This is the fail safe of the masses.

 

[Literally Bricked]

That is the mating call of the loser. Status quo. Body positivity. The village bicycle and the divorce machine. The population is below average, over weight, obese or fat AF. The solution isn't to settle with a skank or accept the shit sandwich like most chumps. It's to make something of yourself. Yes, there are going to be single dudes and incels forever. They are NPCs. They like the guy with the wall of text trying to explain away cuckoldry settle for these outcomes. Closing in on a hundred years of feminism. Proud single mom and body positivity. This is the fail safe of the masses.

If he's posting on a forum asking if he's going to forever alone then he is a fucking loser.

 

[chimpoehurricane]

If he's posting on a forum asking if he's going to forever alone then he is a fucking loser.

No argument here.

I do think a lot of fatherless men need a kick in the ass and be taken under their wing.

The feminism proud single mom and I'm a victim experimentation has failed.

Women are spoiled for choice of soy boys and effeminate girlie men. I find it quite hilarious. <Lmaoo>

 

[FyrFytr998]

They don't... "commitment" means sticking it out even when it sucks.

Preach. They boys my daughters have dated so far are fucking softer than one ply toilet paper.

 

[Hatorade]

Letting your wife get plowed is cuck.



But thank you for your wall of text.

Swingers don't let their partners fuck other people. Swingers don't care if their partners fuck other people or they get off on it. Does this make sense? That's not what a Cuck is kid.

A Cuck is an insecure dude like yourself that's not down with any of that lifestyle that's with a woman that cheats on him against his will but does nothing about it because he is weak and as intense "feelings" for her.

You are far more capable of being a "cuck" than a dude like myself could ever be because of your attachment to women and their ability to control you = TRUTH
Women are precious creatures to a simp like you. Women are objects to a man like me. We are not the same.

 

[90 50]

ever hear of INFJ?
They are basically introverted handsome people and they still complain about being dateless. The key seems to be not to think about anything.

I’ve become and absolute introvert. I basically go nowhere but work, I spend my free time at home doing yard work, making woodworking. Projects and creative cooking. My. Dog enjoys the outdoors time and food the most I think.

But I’m not complaining about being dateless or single and I’m not “lonely “ at all.

I basically have no fucks given for dealing with bullshit from females at the moment.

My ex. Called me yesterday. I didn’t even pick up the phone. I am finalllyfree of her and she still calls me or texts me down to maybe once every two weeks now instead of two hundred times a day.

and no longer just shows up cryin on my door at 12:00-2am

I’m enjoying my freedom. And have been for a short time now. I don’t want to mess that up at the moment.

But I’m. Good looking and know how to pull ass if I wanted too.

I’m not sure where my mindset. Would fit into today’s need to stick everyone in a box with abbreviations for them.

Is there such thing as a “retired chad” abriviation?? Hahaha

 

[T-dog.1337]

Does anyone else get annoyed by people like I do? The older I get, the more people I meet, I find myself no longer getting impressed by people, and most people's habits, mannerisms, and the shit they say eventually start to annoy me.

I meet people I think are cool and I like them, but I don't generally find myself truly connecting with anyone. I find myself keeping some level of emotional distance internally. I longer have expectations. Maybe I've been disappointed too many times, or desensitized by all the friendships and relationships that didn't work out for whatever reason. It for sure protects me from future disappointment or heartbreak.

When it comes to women, I don't particularly want a relationship at the moment, but I do miss the feeling of genuinely liking someone beyond physical attraction. But jeez, I find myself getting annoyed by the women I meet. In the past, if I met a pretty girl who is nice and interesting, I would be wanting to establish a connection with her, and now I'm like meh, just one out of millions of chicks like her. Now if I meet an attractive woman, I can imagine how she would annoy the shit out of me if I were to enter a relationship with her. I'm friends with quite a few attractive women, and while I quite like them as people, I am glad I'm not their boyfriend.

With the last few women I dated, I was quite relieved when we stopped seeing each other. Looking back, I'm glad none of my relationships resulted in marriage.

I honestly don't know how couples stay happy together long term without wanting to strangle each other.
At least with platonic friendships, you're not with your friends all the time.

I have a date tomorrow, and I genuinely wouldn't care if she flaked on me. I used to get excited for dates when I was younger, now I'm like, "Oh well, I guess I'm doing this."

Is this just a sign of getting old and grumpy? Am I going to be single forever?

I think most people are not swayed by people solely for being attractive. Like you said, it’s easy to come by.
I think this generation is screwed when it comes to relationships. I haven’t seen many long lasting AND faithful relationships. maybe it’s naive to even expect the latter…
With that said, you sound young.
I think you’ll find love and will completely disregard these sentiments that you’re sharing with us in this here thread.
I’m a believer of god, and I think part of the spiritual warfare we are going thru together is the difficulty and failure to find and keep successful marriage and relationships.
It sucks but we are in a war. Satan has his wraps up on those of us who want good out of life. They don’t want us to be happy.

 

[Adamant]

Does anyone else get annoyed by people like I do? The older I get, the more people I meet, I find myself no longer getting impressed by people, and most people's habits, mannerisms, and the shit they say eventually start to annoy me.

I meet people I think are cool and I like them, but I don't generally find myself truly connecting with anyone. I find myself keeping some level of emotional distance internally. I longer have expectations. Maybe I've been disappointed too many times, or desensitized by all the friendships and relationships that didn't work out for whatever reason. It for sure protects me from future disappointment or heartbreak.

When it comes to women, I don't particularly want a relationship at the moment, but I do miss the feeling of genuinely liking someone beyond physical attraction. But jeez, I find myself getting annoyed by the women I meet. In the past, if I met a pretty girl who is nice and interesting, I would be wanting to establish a connection with her, and now I'm like meh, just one out of millions of chicks like her. Now if I meet an attractive woman, I can imagine how she would annoy the shit out of me if I were to enter a relationship with her. I'm friends with quite a few attractive women, and while I quite like them as people, I am glad I'm not their boyfriend.

With the last few women I dated, I was quite relieved when we stopped seeing each other. Looking back, I'm glad none of my relationships resulted in marriage.

I honestly don't know how couples stay happy together long term without wanting to strangle each other.
At least with platonic friendships, you're not with your friends all the time.

I have a date tomorrow, and I genuinely wouldn't care if she flaked on me. I used to get excited for dates when I was younger, now I'm like, "Oh well, I guess I'm doing this."

Is this just a sign of getting old and grumpy? Am I going to be single forever?

Try eHarmony. They pair you up based on like 87 different metrics.

 

[T-dog.1337]

My perception of people has changed over the years. I'm glad I'm not into men because a lot of dudes annoying to be around.

I'm 35

Nvm your haha thought you were 20’s.
Yeah it sounds like you’re gonna be a bachelor. That’s good. Enjoy.

 

[NoSmilez]

Swingers don't let their partners fuck other people. Swingers don't care if their partners fuck other people or they get off on it. Does this make sense? That's not what a Cuck is kid.

A Cuck is an insecure dude like yourself that's not down with any of that lifestyle that's with a woman that cheats on him against his will but does nothing about it because he is weak and as intense "feelings" for her.

You are far more capable of being a "cuck" than a dude like myself could ever be because of your attachment to women and their ability to control you = TRUTH
Women are precious creatures to a simp like you. Women are objects to a man like me. We are not the same.

LOL i giggled at this

 

[horc00]

Sounds like TS should start dating dudes.

 

[Contempt]

IDK, if you are feeling this way maybe you should take a break from dating for a while and focus on improving yourself for now. Hone those skills, improve your performance, get promoted, get healthy ect. In the end you will end up elevating your quality of life and making yourself desirable to a larger pool of ladies. But I am a moron and no one should listen to a thing I say lol.

The danger with taking a break from dating is realising how much quieter, easier and more relaxed your life is while single and running the risk of just deciding fuck it, I just couldn't be bothered anymore.

 

[Ichibanner]

Well at least you've learned not to put the pussy on a pedastal .

On the other hand it sounds like you're just apathetic about dating. Maybe at this point in your life a romantic relationship won't bring the fulfillment you're looking for.

Find something your passionate about and put women on the backburner until you feel a desire for them again.

^^This. You sound apathetic about life in general. Find activities or interests that you like then see if you enjoy sharing those activities with like-minded people.

Also, try to realize if you're in a funk or depressed for whatever reason and work on the causes and cure. Your happiness, mental health, and general well-being have to be your top priority before considering bringing others into your life.

 

[Doughie99]

Good I suppose.

My parents are getting worried about me

May I ask how old you are ?

Also.... you just haven't met the right girl yet. Sometimes if you don't go LOOKING for a special girl, one will somehow enter your life.
I think you're maybe trying too hard to find one. When you find someone you're crazy about...you WILL know it.

Also... do not get married because of what your PARENTS would like. do it (or don't do it, that's perfectly fine) for yourself.
you cannot and should not cave into society's pressures and family expectations.

 

[AbominableJoman]

Does anyone else get annoyed by people like I do? The older I get, the more people I meet, I find myself no longer getting impressed by people, and most people's habits, mannerisms, and the shit they say eventually start to annoy me.

I meet people I think are cool and I like them, but I don't generally find myself truly connecting with anyone. I find myself keeping some level of emotional distance internally. I longer have expectations. Maybe I've been disappointed too many times, or desensitized by all the friendships and relationships that didn't work out for whatever reason. It for sure protects me from future disappointment or heartbreak.

When it comes to women, I don't particularly want a relationship at the moment, but I do miss the feeling of genuinely liking someone beyond physical attraction. But jeez, I find myself getting annoyed by the women I meet. In the past, if I met a pretty girl who is nice and interesting, I would be wanting to establish a connection with her, and now I'm like meh, just one out of millions of chicks like her. Now if I meet an attractive woman, I can imagine how she would annoy the shit out of me if I were to enter a relationship with her. I'm friends with quite a few attractive women, and while I quite like them as people, I am glad I'm not their boyfriend.

With the last few women I dated, I was quite relieved when we stopped seeing each other. Looking back, I'm glad none of my relationships resulted in marriage.

I honestly don't know how couples stay happy together long term without wanting to strangle each other.
At least with platonic friendships, you're not with your friends all the time.

I have a date tomorrow, and I genuinely wouldn't care if she flaked on me. I used to get excited for dates when I was younger, now I'm like, "Oh well, I guess I'm doing this."

Is this just a sign of getting old and grumpy? Am I going to be single forever?

 

[deadshot138]

You think, therefore you are

 

[IamStryker]

Does anyone else get annoyed by people like I do? The older I get, the more people I meet, I find myself no longer getting impressed by people, and most people's habits, mannerisms, and the shit they say eventually start to annoy me.

I meet people I think are cool and I like them, but I don't generally find myself truly connecting with anyone. I find myself keeping some level of emotional distance internally. I longer have expectations. Maybe I've been disappointed too many times, or desensitized by all the friendships and relationships that didn't work out for whatever reason. It for sure protects me from future disappointment or heartbreak.

When it comes to women, I don't particularly want a relationship at the moment, but I do miss the feeling of genuinely liking someone beyond physical attraction. But jeez, I find myself getting annoyed by the women I meet. In the past, if I met a pretty girl who is nice and interesting, I would be wanting to establish a connection with her, and now I'm like meh, just one out of millions of chicks like her. Now if I meet an attractive woman, I can imagine how she would annoy the shit out of me if I were to enter a relationship with her. I'm friends with quite a few attractive women, and while I quite like them as people, I am glad I'm not their boyfriend.

With the last few women I dated, I was quite relieved when we stopped seeing each other. Looking back, I'm glad none of my relationships resulted in marriage.

I honestly don't know how couples stay happy together long term without wanting to strangle each other.
At least with platonic friendships, you're not with your friends all the time.

I have a date tomorrow, and I genuinely wouldn't care if she flaked on me. I used to get excited for dates when I was younger, now I'm like, "Oh well, I guess I'm doing this."

Is this just a sign of getting old and grumpy? Am I going to be single forever?

Imo marriage works when you depend on one another. My wife and I annoy each other everyday but we would never think of leaving. I need her and she needs me. I appreciate her for everything she does in our relationship and vice-versa.

 

[huskylord]

If you're a 6, try for a 5 or below.....forget about the 7s and up.