Advice you would give your 21 year old self.

Stop doubting yourself. You can do what you want if you just believe in yourself.

Go to therapy

NEVER join the Military
 
Try to help those less fortunate than you. For years every Christmas Iv gotten tons of crap gifts that I didn't ask for & have no use for.
Now before December rolls around I just hand out papers with people's Go Fund me accounts to my family & tell them to donate that gift money to these people that really need it.
 
Advice i'd give my 21 year old self...

Don't date a woman with a kid.
Maximize time efficiency.
Take every chance in everything you can. Go for broke.

That's basically it, took me until i was 25 to enact this.
 
First: Read the Bible and learn. God is real and He's been showing you this for your whole life. In fact, you just got a huge message recently.

Second: Be serious about your health. I know these symptoms suck and you feel like you're about to get better... but you're not going to get any better doing what you're doing. It doesn't matter how much it hurts or how bad it looks and feels, it matters if it's helping you or not. Do movement therapy and the Mattes Method every. single. day. WITH all the rest of your therapy until your problems are gone and you're strong and healthy. DO NOT STOP. ONLY YOU WILL SOLVE THESE PROBLEMS AND IF YOU DON'T DO IT NOW IT WILL GET MUCH WORSE.

Third: Start writing down what you do every day and how long it takes you. Then, start grading your days based on your productivity. You need to be aware that every single day counts and if it counts, you need to keep track of it.

Fourth: There's a lot you're not seeing right now, and there's a lot you've never seen and you know this... but because you haven't seen it, you don't know what you're missing. Trust me and do those first two things. The rest will figure itself out.

If my 21 year old self argued with me about the second point... I would beat the shit out of him.


It would be more helpful if I could go back to 16, at 21 I was pretty fucked.
 
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and in these scenarios I always feel confident that I would be able to convince my younger self to do what needs to be done.
 
alot of folks around here saying dont get married? as a single young man i ask, is getting married bullshit?
 
Chindit said:
- Buy a hearing aid, you have to realize that you've a handicap.

- Do wrestling/grappling, not fucking TKD. Explore that world.

- Do useful, practical studies, not humanities. You'll have time to learn that stuff later.

- Buy gold & silver, automatic watches from real clockmakers, pieces of art.

- Make a list of the top 200 books to read, top 200 musics to listen, movies to watch, sport events to watch, and do it.
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The TKD is can agree with.
 
Brampton_Boy said:
1) Spend more time with your dog and aunts/uncles (RIP)
2) Spend less time in the gym, and more time with friends
3) Stop wasting so much money on girls
4) Tell the one girl you really like that you love her (instead of doing it years later and ruining the friendship)
5) Colored contacts will never be a good idea, no matter how much you think you will look cool in them. They only make you look gay.
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Interesting.....

2) Usually the advice is to spend more time at the gym and care about your health and less time with drug using friends, or drinking and developing a beer gut.

Better body and health= more girls, male envy, and alpha presence and increased confidence.

5) I agree and it would be better to color your hair before ever using fake contacts. Male actors only wear fake contacts when they are forced in a role.

Jack Handy jr said:
I disapprove of this post.

If there's anybody milinials should listen to on this site it's me. I've drank more beer, banged more quiff,shot more guns, kicked more ass, and pissed more blood than everyone under 21 on this site combined.

And that ain't no bullshit either.



























Don't listen to jhjr...just go choke yourself numb nuts.
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I think these threads of yours are good. I learn stuff (some of which I knew) but also new advice or it reinforces beliefs I have.
 
SouthoftheAndes said:
Interesting.....

2) Usually the advice is to spend more time at the gym and care about your health and less time with drug using friends, or drinking and developing a beer gut.

Better body and health= more girls, male envy, and alpha presence and increased confidence.

5) I agree and it would be better to color your hair before ever using fake contacts. Male actors only wear fake contacts when they are forced in a role.



I think these threads of yours are good. I learn stuff (some of which I knew) but also new advice or it reinforces beliefs I have.
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Well, I was obsessed with training for much of my 20s - if I wasn't studying, I was in the gym. I would routinely pull two a days, and I developed some pretty severe body image issues that I still struggle with.

My Friday/Saturday nights were spent in the weight room, while my friends were actually out living life. I don't regret missing things like drinking/drugs etc (that was never my scene), but the memories of spending time with people you care about are something you can't get back.
 
You will lose a lot of family connection, sentimentally valued material items, jobs and sexy fuck time girlfriends.....because of the way you drink.

Stop drinking and stick to weed dummy.
 
I would say to try to get more out of university rather than just passing, and to take the 6 out of 10 that often wanted to blow you instead of trying for the 8. Words to live by I reckon.
 
I'd of told myself to go through with the 3some with the 2 middle aged broads I was offered but turned down. As JayZ says you got to learn to live with regret
 
Clippy said:
STOP FUCKING EATING YOU FAT FUCK
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Bro...food addiction is just as powerful if not more than most drugs and alcohol. And there's no social stigma about being overweight like say a meth user, crack head, or heroin user.

Recently lost a lot of weight after seeing how much of a fat fuck I'd become in a family photo. Finally back down to a 40 inch waste aiming for 36

It ain't easy ... A UFC, or college football game with bacon wrapped pizza crust, hot wings with ranch, and a pitcher of beer.... I liken to the nectar of the gods, on my perfect day lol
 
Overpressure said:
Enjoy and savor every second of your first marriage, she was a gem.
Avoid the second one.
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Eddie Money's song "I wanna go back" is one I love but from time to time it'll hit me in the feels. The torture of the "one that got away" can perpetually haunt you.


And when you do go a few months without her popping into your head there's a song you shared, someone will say something, you see a dame that closely resembles, and it starts a again.

SoMetimes I wish some super nerd scientist would come up with a selective memory hard drive dump, or bio delete function.

Don't get me wrong I've moved on I only lurked her face book like ten times last year..she married some old ass fool..which adds insult to the pain this old geriatric is plowing my childhood sweetheart with his old balls and his Cialis......I've said too much lol.
 
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