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Hello everyone,
My girlfriend's father passed away last night. He was surrounded by her and her mother in the hospital while I quickly ran to check the score of the NHL playoffs. It was a fitting way for him to end his life being surrounded by his daughter (my girlfriend is an only child) who he had a very very close relationship with, and his wife who he adored dearly. He was a terrific man. He was full of life and loved everyone indiscriminately.
As such, my girlfriend is grieving right now and is in the middle of making funeral arrangements as we speak. She says she wants to hear his voice one last time. I asked her if she had any video or audio recordings and she said no.
Then it dawned on me.
A year and a half ago I had to submit a paper of an interview I conducted of someone in his later years recounting his life for a class entitled Adulthood and Life Transitions. I had used my friend's recording device to record the interview. I ended up dropping the class soon after and then returned my friend's device to him and didn't think of it anymore. I asked him today if he deleted that interview and, as luck would have it, it was still there! He uploaded it on google drive and I downloaded it. I just listened to the whole thing and it was quite an incredible thing to hear his voice, to hear him laugh, and talk about his life.
So I'm obviously going to hand this over to my girlfriend, only I am not sure how or when to do this. I'm very excited that I can do this for her and can hardly contain myself. I know myself too, I'll get so excited that I'll either blurt it out, or tell her I have a surprise for her. But given the stakes, I can exercise some restraint and just deliver this to her in the most appropriate way in terms of timing and method.
So I need your advice on this. The man just passed away last night so the feelings are all still very raw. Is it best that I wait? If so, how long? Should I give her a cd or a flash drive? Should I make a montage out of it? What's the most comprehensive way to make a montage out of it? Is this even a bad idea at all? (I wouldn't think so but I still need your advice on this.
Thanks guys, and while playful banter is welcomed, let's keep this discussion kosher out of respect for a wonderful human being who recently passed on.
Thank you
My girlfriend's father passed away last night. He was surrounded by her and her mother in the hospital while I quickly ran to check the score of the NHL playoffs. It was a fitting way for him to end his life being surrounded by his daughter (my girlfriend is an only child) who he had a very very close relationship with, and his wife who he adored dearly. He was a terrific man. He was full of life and loved everyone indiscriminately.
As such, my girlfriend is grieving right now and is in the middle of making funeral arrangements as we speak. She says she wants to hear his voice one last time. I asked her if she had any video or audio recordings and she said no.
Then it dawned on me.
A year and a half ago I had to submit a paper of an interview I conducted of someone in his later years recounting his life for a class entitled Adulthood and Life Transitions. I had used my friend's recording device to record the interview. I ended up dropping the class soon after and then returned my friend's device to him and didn't think of it anymore. I asked him today if he deleted that interview and, as luck would have it, it was still there! He uploaded it on google drive and I downloaded it. I just listened to the whole thing and it was quite an incredible thing to hear his voice, to hear him laugh, and talk about his life.
So I'm obviously going to hand this over to my girlfriend, only I am not sure how or when to do this. I'm very excited that I can do this for her and can hardly contain myself. I know myself too, I'll get so excited that I'll either blurt it out, or tell her I have a surprise for her. But given the stakes, I can exercise some restraint and just deliver this to her in the most appropriate way in terms of timing and method.
So I need your advice on this. The man just passed away last night so the feelings are all still very raw. Is it best that I wait? If so, how long? Should I give her a cd or a flash drive? Should I make a montage out of it? What's the most comprehensive way to make a montage out of it? Is this even a bad idea at all? (I wouldn't think so but I still need your advice on this.
Thanks guys, and while playful banter is welcomed, let's keep this discussion kosher out of respect for a wonderful human being who recently passed on.
Thank you