A gift of very expensive jewelry ~ I couldn't accept, psychological reason?

[Luthien]

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Guess it'll just be another post that goes ignored.

@Clementine

I am sorry if you feel that I have been ignoring you?? I didn't realize I had O. o

If you look through the thread I did say I was getting into my car so any reply would be delayed for a while, hmm - we have talked enough that you know I'm busy and distracted all the time, if I missed anything and you feel upset about it, I'm sorry

Sorry, I couldn't return that diamond ring gif.

*Let me tell you how you feel how I feel that you feel by the fight in the ring*



You probably feel like the person is trying to buy your love instead of earning it. In the same vein, you think he might expect something in returm as an exchange. Which he might. Also, maybe you just feel like he is moving way too fast with a serious gesture of something really expensive.

Read through the thread, you silly goose! there is nothing romantic going on!!

 

[AGGAMEMNON66]

@I’m Not A Nugget

^very weird that I can’t ‘@‘ this poster.. wonder who’s gimmick it is

 

[Luthien]

Yeah thats over the top to buy you such an expensive item, it was cool that you helped him with his weight, but a gold necklace is too much. Maybe a box of chocolates would have been more appropriate.

Yum is always acceptable

 

[Luthien]

that guy jacks off to you literally every single day. he thinks of coating your face, probably even in the parking lot, right before he walks into work and says hi to you. just thought you should know

he probably has your facebook pictures up at this very moment. hell maybe hes even photoshopped your face on similar, nude bodies.

Why would you post something so disgusting?

 

[Luthien]

@MescalineDreams
Thank you for your replies, got me thinking on some stuff, super helpful!

 

[BFoe]

Yeah thats over the top to buy you such an expensive item, it was cool that you helped him with his weight, but a gold necklace is too much. Maybe a box of chocolates would have been more appropriate.

Or a high five. A high five could’ve been appropriate.

 

[Luthien]

Or a high five. A high five could’ve been appropriate.

High fives are none negotiable if you are a client of mine!

 

[MrFriendly]

Why would you post something so disgusting?

Same reason dude gave you necklace...they both want attention

 

[Luthien]

Same reason dude gave you necklace...they both want attention

Luckily I only read the first bit he posted before scrolling down, saw enough to know it was super gross...

 

[BFoe]

Same reason dude gave you necklace...they both want attention

This. At least Necklace Boy wasn’t overtly creepy about it, like Sherdog Comment Boy was.

 

[Luthien]

Yes. a more suitable gift for the non romantic is a pearl necklace.

Maybe I'm corny... But I legit do not understand what a pearl necklace is? I have guessed by the reply you got from another poster that it is something disgusting...?
Not sure I honestly even want to know

 

[BFoe]

Its like that dude who bought a dozen roses for this random girl

Very odd and off putting acts of affection

Not even sure how you approach it. You did the right thing

Oh yeah...that was a strange thread.

 

[GearSolidMetal]

It was several thousand dollars spent tho, like who just goes out and buys that to somebody you're not in a relationship with?

Woah..... several thousand dollars???

If I were you, I'd ask if he could just pay my rent for a few months.

He is a sweet guy! Put it just put me on the spot it felt

Haven't read the rest of the thread, but I'd make it clear to him you and he are friends/coworkers.

I bet you have a broad idea of how much he makes, and how many day/weeks pay that is for him to give such a gift.

Some guys are socially retarded in such interactions with women.

 

[GearSolidMetal]

You are not into it and you would feel bad accepting a gift from someone you don't project yourself dating in the future, quiet rare among females on the internet

Fixed.

 

[all caps]

Everyones got a price....

 

[MescalineDreams]

@MescalineDreams
Thank you for your replies, got me thinking on some stuff, super helpful!

It's what I do

 

[volodya]

Maybe I'm corny... But I legit do not understand what a pearl necklace is? I have guessed by the reply you got from another poster that it is something disgusting...?
Not sure I honestly even want to know

You're...not serious?

Lol

 

[GearSolidMetal]

Maybe I'm corny... But I legit do not understand what a pearl necklace is?

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You are adorable.

I have guessed by the reply you got from another poster that it is something disgusting...?
Not sure I honestly even want to know

Yeah.... don't look it up.

 

[MescalineDreams]

Oh yeah...that was a strange thread.

A lot of men are like that, lol

Got these girls who aren't even remotely interested venerated as goddesses. We've been taught a lot of shady masculinity in this culture and most guys just don't have the knowledge to take the right actions. Porn plays a HUGE factor in all this as well

Record low test levels isn't helping anything either, thats the great equalizer, even if you have zero game, your Juice will do the talking for you but most guys don't even have that now

They're trying I guess, it's just sad there's so many men who still think this is the right way to approach getting a woman interested in them lol

 

[BFoe]

A lot of men are like that, lol

Got these girls who aren't even remotely interested venerated as goddesses. We've been taught a lot of shady masculinity in this culture and most guys just don't have the knowledge to take the right actions. Porn plays a HUGE factor in all this as well

Record low test levels isn't helping anything either, thats the great equalizer, even if you have zero game, your Juice will do the talking for you but most guys don't even have that now

They're trying I guess, it's just sad there's so many men who still think this is the right way to approach getting a woman interested in them lol

Yeah, honestly, I saw my way out of that thread. Too much weird psychology going on. Dude gave a chick he barely knows roses, then asked for a hug(?!) and then just scampered away holding his balls because of an alleged “groin hernia.” ROFL. I was convinced that “groin hernia” was code for “embarrassing erection,” and that’s when I decided I’m not even gonna comment on this mess. Just slooowwwly backed away.