My friend is recently divorced (his choice) and during our party weekend a little while back we discussed what it takes to be successful with the ladies. We've basically got it down to these several factors to get any girl you want. 1. Confidence: Be confident with women. Make eye contact with them and initiate conversation. Don't be afraid to drop a compliment and make contact (dancing, put your hand on their lower back, whisper something in the ear) These are alpha moves that will pay off 2. Dress OK: I'm not gonna go off and say what to wear as all styles are different but dress appropriate for the event. What you would wear at a concert, christmas party, night club, grocery shopping, work will likely vary to some extent. Don't be that bum who rocks the dirty jeans. 3.Don't get too drunk: This is big. Feel your range of what brings out the A game of your social communication in women meeting venues. Keep this level up. Most men I imagine would be have 7-12 beers over 5 hour period ( 9pm-1am) Nothing worst than being too drunk and going speechless, sick, or incoherent with the ladies. 4. Keep your weight down. It's biology. Being fat isnt cool. But by fat i mean FAT!!! You can be 240+ as long as your muscular and over 6fttall. Try to keep your weight in an acceptable range. This will result in higher energy levels which will help all aspects of life. 5. Sense of Humour, Good Spirited: Don't be that bring down who's always complaining about life's wrongs, shitty politics, the terrible people in your life, etc (this can come later once you're in a serious relationship haha) Crack jokes and always be smiling. Women love men who present this way and if they don't they are likely miserable, snobby, have a mood disorder or are russian (jk) 6. Use internet dating sites: This is huge and takes all the leg work out of the process of getting laid, meeting ladies. Make a profile, insure it has a positive ring to it and post some pictures of you with friends having fun. This is money in the bank. Good luck and happy lady hunting, there's so many out there!!!