Yay or nay (before a date)?

[ObsoleteSoul]

Dude.... Women are down of they like you. Sometimes if they don't. Do you know what's going on out there??

Im a guy who has turned down pussy that looked good. Not because I'm a gorgeous guy who can pick and choose, but because i respect myself. Believe it or not, women do the same.

Quick edit. A lady asked me one time if she could use me for sex. See was a gorgeous gal, but i don't get used by anyone if i can help it. It's more important to maintain my self worth than get a quick nut.

 

[Amerikuracana]

Im a guy who has turned down pussy that looked good. Not because I'm a gorgeous guy who can pick and choose, but because i respect myself. Believe it or not, women do the same.

If they think you're sexy, they will have sex with you.

 

[ObsoleteSoul]

If they think you're sexy, they will have sex with you.

That's simply not true. Not of anyone who has self respect. An hoir of play is not worth your dignity if you choose to have some.

Another edit lol.
Maybe it is because i had kids young, and see what can happen to your life for a mere hour of fun. It depends on what is important to you.

 

[Ogata]

Yeah i get that. Women make a lot of guys lose perspective on what is important to them. Getting laid is not the main goal of successful men. Only boys.

Seems you are doing ok. Just dont worry about it so much. It's not that important.

I hear you, my goal is to make great amount of money so parents don't have to work or retire early. But yeah I guess being occupied or immersed in other aspects of life has removed sexual needs from the forefront of my mind.

Kind of ironic that the moment I started getting some was the moment I lost my drive.

I was only 23 when I did this. I only fapped 3 times because my buddy hooked me with these generic viagra pills that made my dick look bigger then it really was (I kept getting erections to make myself feel better). I would never fap 3 times today, my dick wouldn't allow it.

I remember when I was 23, I ended up having raging boner for redheads. I also remembered morning woods and it was so goddamn painful. But yeah, I remember my record was 4 fapping in a day. It was insane now that I think about it. If I try to Fap, it MUST be before bed because I end up going to sleep right away while feeling jello like relaxation that feels like drowning in a quick sand.

 

[Amerikuracana]

That's simply not true. Not of anyone who has self respect. An hoir of play is not worth your dignity if you choose to have some.

Another edit lol.
Maybe it is because i had kids young, and see what can happen to your life for a mere hour of fun. It depends on what is important to you.

The "good girls" are the worst. Fake Christians, college girls? I wish more of the girls you talked about existed. Not all girls cheat, but they are all down.

I have daughters. I am really trying to explain that being a skank will not lead to a better marriage, and the way girls think they need to act in college is a lie. TRUTH, girls are more animalistic about sex. It means less to them a lot of the time. It's actually sad. But I went to college, I dated Christians, all the same bro.

 

[ObsoleteSoul]

The "good girls" are the worst. Fake Christians, college girls? I wish more of the girls you talked about existed. Not all girls cheat, but they are all down.

I have daughters. I am really trying to explain that being a skank will not lead to a better marriage, and the way girls think they need to act in college is a lie. TRUTH, girls are more animalistic about sex. It means less to them a lot of the time. It's actually sad. But I went to college, I dated Christians, all the same bro.

Not sure what religion has to do with it, but we just see things differently. It happens.

No harm, no foul, my friend.

 

[Sir Galahad]

With that attitude I sense a #metoo coming your way soon.

 

[BJ@LW&WW]

sometimes i dont get hard a second time if ive ejaculated too recently (and probably has to do with alcohol consumption as well) so i'd say no.

 

[GordoBarraBJJ]

I'm asking because

A. I'm in the later stages of getting to know this gal - she works at a place I like to frequent and appears to be mutually interested.

B. She gets me going so trying to have any type of conversation with her is impossible atm without wanting to ravage her right there.

c. Think the time is right to move forward and gonna ask her out this week.

d. If she says yeah and we do go out want to make sure I'm focused on conversation and not wanting to see her naked (which I do).

e. In the short time I've known her I've come deduct that she is not most likely not going to give it up on the first date.

7. Maybe I should just take an extra dose of CBD

 

[GordoBarraBJJ]

sometimes i dont get hard a second time if ive ejaculated too recently (and probably has to do with alcohol consumption as well) so i'd say no.

I don't drink anymore so that is not going to be a problem for me (the booze part).

 

[drstrangelov]

When I was a teenager, I would jerk off before heading out, because I was more concerned about premature ejaculation than anything else. I grew out of that problem, and realized I'd rather have a full tank and the accompanying sexual energy that came with it when meeting a woman for the first time. Also, when you know it's a one night stand, you can bring a seriously full tank to the party and fire off like a 12 roper all over this stranger before heading home.

Now I'm married, if I have time to jerk off comfortably, I'll take advantage of the opportunity 9 times out of 10.

 

[GordoBarraBJJ]

If she say's yes to me - gonna play this one by ear.