Virtue: I have an iron will and will push to achieve a goal at great cost to myself. I can "just deal with" just about anything
Flaw: I dislike myself and never factor in my own well being or happiness in my decision making, so I have trouble motivating myself to do something if I will be the only beneficiary. I have to do mental gymnastics to convince myself I am helping others so that I will care enough to help myself. I blame my confidence in my ability to "just deal with it", so I don't worry about helping myself in advance