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That should be the last word on the issue. I understand that you don't *like* for gender to mean something different from sex, but factually, it does. So your argument is that you don't think that there should be a term of what "gender" is defined as.
No, I'm gonna go with the numerous other sources who've simply defined it as "the state of being either male or female". Not the one specifically expounded to include a new generation of confused people. We're simply gonna have to agree to disagree if we're using different definitions, but I'm sticking with the universal one of "the state of being either male or female".
By the new definition that you want to give the word rather than the current definition.
I'm not giving it a new definition, I'm going with the very standard, accepted version of the word. Not a definition that specifically explores it's every applicable use.
Do you disagree that gender is "the state of being either male or female"?
So you don't like the terminology that people use to describe their preferences. Just kind of grammarian fussbaggery?
I guess you can call it that. Or just a preference that we teach kids what words actually mean, and don't support a hypocritical line of thinking where it's suggested that individuality is defined by an adherence to a select group of gender-specific stereotypes.
1. He doesn't have to say it. It's just an easy way to communicate
Laziness isn't an excuse for being wrong.
2. Obviously, no one is pretending that a boy who prefers a feminine gender expression doesn't have a dick, etc. You are egregiously (and humorously) misunderstanding the discussion.
No I'm not. I work at a store where changing rooms and bathrooms can be used by whoever identifies with the gender labeled. A man can tell us "I identify as a woman", and we have to let him into the woman's changing room. I essentially have to pretend that he's right to use the bathroom specifically designed for human's who have a vagina, even though I know he doesn't.
That's me having to play pretend.
Do you see why this might end up causing more problems for society as a whole, as opposed to relieving a minority of a minor inconvenience? Especially when it comes to human sexuality, the last thing we need is less definition and more openness.
Again, there's no scientific dispute here (much less "throwing out science"). It's purely semantic. Your view seems to be that we should change our language to make it harder to discuss the issue.
No, what we should do is teach people that if you have a vagina, but wanna have short hair and play sports, you're still a girl. You can identify as a girl, because that's what your gender is. We shouldn't be teaching boys that if they like make-up and dresses, they should tell people they're a woman. Because that's simply lying to them. They aren't a woman. They're still a male, their gender is still the same.