What do women find attractive/unattractive about you?

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What are your selling points or turn-ons with women and what are some things they don't like? I never really thought much about this specific thing, but I've had several girls tell me recently that I have a sexy voice. It's deep and clear and I can pronounce things nearly perfectly in other languages.

The big turn off is making jokes where they don't know I'm kidding. I also just blow things out of the water entirely if I get even a slight impression that we aren't connecting.
 
I've had women say they are attracted to my intelligence.

And nobody's ever told me this, but I have to believe they are turned off by my soft mid section. I think they are just too nice to say it.

I also had one girl say she loved my dick. Not because it was big, but because it was small. Her previous boyfriend was huge and she said the sex was painful, and she hated giving him head because her mouth was too small and would hurt. She said being with me was like having 6 inches of heaven.
 
High confidence without being a dick or a jerk.
 
Turn on's:
1. Top poster on sherdog
2. I'm jacked and tan. Not to brag, I've been called mancandy by other women, but I still remain humble.

Turn off's: I'm not real sure, but some wouldn't like how I am set in my ways, because I know what works and what doesn't.
 
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My physique is my selling point.

My vulgarity is what turns the cunts off.
 
Like:
Blue eyes
Dimples
Sense of humor
Arms and shoulders

Dislike:
5'10" been told I'm too short
Don't have abs
My place can get messy
It takes me a while to feel comfortable around new people.
 
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I also had one girl say she loved my dick. Not because it was big, but because it was small... She said being with me was like having 6 inches of heaven.

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my huge peen, my impressive bench press, my ability to fill a room with upper cuts .................... not to mention my Sherdog red belt is the ultimate panty dropper


Unattractive qualities, probably my humility
 
My intelligence. But I know that this is a lie, girls don't care about intelligence. The care about the resources it can provide, she's really getting wet over the vast amounts of resources she realizes I can accumulate.

My large weenie. Well, atleast I know that they actually like this...

My athleticism.

My drive and ambition to succeed.

Oh yeah, they always see me as a pseudo father figure as well.
 
My intelligence. But I know that this is a lie, girls don't care about intelligence. The care about the resources it can provide, she's really getting wet over the vast amounts of resources she realizes I can accumulate.

Agreed. It's not the intelligence itself, but what it can provide, that makes them wet.

I had a girl that was super into me because of my perceived intelligence. We had just graduated high school and when I told her I wasnt sure if I wanted to go to college, she lost interest overnight.
 
You handsome devils post the best stories with absolutely zero pictures, gotta love Sherdog.
 
Turn offs - I'm in good shape. I live between Japan and Korea, and they don't really like big, muscular guys for the most part. I'm pretty slim compared to a typical Westerner though--I have a fighter's build, not a jacked power lifter, or protein shake addict. But it just looks like a lot compared to other asian guys.
Dick is too big. Sounds like a brag, but it ain't. I'm not even ridiculously huge, but in asia, having a bbc scares these girls.
Not tall enough. (5'9)

Turn ons - I'm in good shape. I like clothes, so I dress well. Cute smile. Long eye lashes.
I'm a good listener. I am told I am easy to talk to. People end up telling me personal shit about them very quickly, quite often. I'll let you talk and talk, and then after 3 hours, you realize you haven't heard anything about me.
Girls want to try and solve this...mystery..
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I've had women say they are attracted to my intelligence.

And nobody's ever told me this, but I have to believe they are turned off by my soft mid section. I think they are just too nice to say it.

I also had one girl say she loved my dick. Not because it was big, but because it was small. Her previous boyfriend was huge and she said the sex was painful, and she hated giving him head because her mouth was too small and would hurt. She said being with me was like having 6 inches of heaven.

Honestly when you get to any kind of age with someone who's worth being with then the ability to actually have conservations is going to come top of most peoples lists, I can't imagine a long term relationship without that.

Personally my view tends to be that more women care about arms/sholders/legs/butts being reasonably in shape than they do six packs, theres doubtless a visual appeal to some but on the physical side its no different to us when it comes to sleeping/snuggling with someone with very low bodyfat not being as comfortable.

I would tend to say unless your very long/short most women care about decent girth than length of your dick, there going to care far more how good you are in bed generally though and I suspect many pornstar sized guys can't be bothered to make much effort considering themselves gods gift to women.
 
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My intelligence. But I know that this is a lie, girls don't care about intelligence. The care about the resources it can provide, she's really getting wet over the vast amounts of resources she realizes I can accumulate.
You just have to clear their level of intelligence, and they seem to sincerely not know the difference between 5 IQ points above theirs and 50.
 
Agreed. It's not the intelligence itself, but what it can provide, that makes them wet.

I had a girl that was super into me because of my perceived intelligence. We had just graduated high school and when I told her I wasnt sure if I wanted to go to college, she lost interest overnight.
Women really aren't interested in abstractions or intellectualism for it's own sake.

There have been almost no female philosophers and although there are women who study it now in school, none of them really have come up with anything original and good. Just regurgitating what others have said.

I think a person needs to be an intellectual them self to appreciate a smart person.
 
Turn ons: well traveled, kind of diverse set of eclectic interests.

Turn offs: I'll never worship a woman, or pay a lot of attention to them (other than my daughters)
 
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