Bobs burgers is hit and miss with people. I would relate it closely to King of the Hill.
To an extent. With the vibe, I hear ya. You got all these other cartoon shows that are way more in your face, and then "Bob's Burgers" is just there, doing the opposite of what the other shows are doing. It slows everything down, and it clashes with the others.
That said, I blame the misunderstanding of what "King of The Hill" was, on the age demographic it was trying to reach at the time. I couldn't really understand why older people liked it. They got that it was essentially a live action sitcom in cartoon form, and went with it. All I saw was a "not The Simpsons". Now I can appreciate it for what it is, and look at it differently than when I was 14 or whatever. It's a brilliantly written show, and the jokes click now, whereas back in the day, I wanted something more immediate that resembled what I was familiar with.
With "Bob's Burgers", it's just bland to me. I don't see the humor. It's not an age thing, either. It's just bleh. I've given it that "King of the Hill" chance, where I'm thinking maybe I just don't get it, but nope. It's just bores the shit out of me.
To each their own though. Comedy is one of those things that just can't be defined.