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As of 6:30 PM last night, I'm officially the father of a high school graduate.
I was 17 when he was born, only a junior in high school. I'm 35, soon to be 36 now.
I worked full-time through college, albeit I went to a university with a built-in co-op/internship program.
If I can raise a child as a teenager, work full time, and go to college, then anyone can.
I'm tired of hearing 30-somethings who were able to live out their 20's according to their own plan, who put their wants/needs at the forefront of their lives, and who had had the luxury of "finding themselves" complain about their fucking lives because they have kids now and so they feel the need to rally for "paid paternity leave" so they can mitigate some stress.
There is no crisis in American fatherhood. The real issue is weak and ineffectual males wanting to remain children well into their 30's.
Explain to us exactly how that worked. You worked fulltime (40 hrs/week) went to school (let's call that a conservative 25 hours) so that's 65 hours. Who raised the kid during the 9.5 hours you weren't home? Who took care of him/her? You keep saying you raised the kid, but speaking from experience, you can't leave an infant alone for 2 minutes, let alone 9.5 hours. So who helped you?