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Yup.Good luck bro.seriously good luck ..if you want a relationship that last past five years I hope you progress more in the male/female dynamics dept.
Please don’t take that as a personal diss,I truly am trying to help you...you are trying to equate sexual aggression as “mind games”..women really do like to be desired and shown through physical aggression that a man wants them..any sociologist worth there weight in salt will back that claim up...he’ll ill help you here.
https://www.bustle.com/articles/724...rdered-around-in-bed-because-yes-you-can-be-a
Article by a sex therapist from San Francisco that further backs our collective claims..don’t take my word for it.take a women’s word.
There in lies the problem I think..
I don’t think you have much experience with women..or you’ve surrounded yourself with people/women/educators who have a skewed perception of common sexual behavior,thereby influencing your idealism’s and out of touch nature..
Simply put.. you don’t know women.
First thing I pointed out was that he seemed like a child on this topic with no personal experience and someone who just reads about sex on the internet on too many SJW sites. Sad.
Your post above is a very reasonable one to him and all he can reply with is that 'you sound like rapist'. Everything is black and white with this kid and no grey. Everything should happen at the exact same time with the same interest level and any convincing of the other is basically abuse or rape.
The idea that in a relationship you will from time to time convince your partner or her you, to have sex when they might not have been in the mood prior would not even be controversial to anyone who has been in any relationships. But to him the idea is anathema.