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He said I was victim blaming
Whoops, I didn't see that last part of his quote.
I do agree that your OP does border on victim blaming, though. As one of the earlier commenters said, it shouldn't be expected of all victims (or rape, murder, robbery, or anything, really) to be perfect individuals, or else have their coming out as having been victimized be construed at shallow attention-seeking.