I've been reading and listening to a lot of Malcolm Gladwell's stuff recently. I looked up his bio online recently and found he has never married at the age of 53. I was expecting him to be married to an attractive partner. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malcolm_Gladwell Could you see this happening to you? Why do you think he couldn't meet the right woman? Do you ever think it could be because he's into weird stuff sexually? Do you know anyone who does it by choice?