I'll never understand why some people do not connect with the gender they were born with. Something is clearly "wrong" in the sense that from a biological standpoint they are supposed to feel like who they are born as and act in that manner. But I don't think there is anything "wrong" with them choosing to be who they think they are or that its morally wrong.
There's a tribe in Costa Rica where some boys are not born with this "sub-testosterone" (medical jargon not accurate) that is normally produced in the womb. They are born with vaginas because of this and when they hit puberty, this sub-testosterone kicks in and they start to grow dicks. Some choose to then become and act like boys and some choose to stay and act like girls. Can you really blame or shame them in whatever they chose?
It's not all black and white sherbros. In the end, we are all one. Peace and love muh fuckers.