Hrm... So "I had to encourage her a bit" is actually "I had to force her a bit"? And this is, as presented by the article, a male problem indicating a rape culture centered around men? Holy shit if I had a nickel for every woman I knew who went to a party/clubbing feeling 110% entitled to "encourage" even a reticent man into sleeping with her I could quit working. Literally, what they're presenting as something primarily done by men is just a perfectly acceptable night out expectation for women.
Seriously, shit like this is common:
(For reference, this is a man on social media asking a question "Ladies, y'all laid in your bed naked, you wanna have sex and he says "no"... Wyd?" and pages of women responding "
I'd take it." What feminists define as "rape culture" when men do it, a general sense of entitlement and an attitude of "
if the partner is not willing, I'll take it anyway" is actually a totally normalized expectation for a lot of women. They view men as fundamentally willing - and if they say no, they just need to be convinced. This is
normal for women and it goes largely ignored/unnoticed - but you want to be how the feminist community reacts when a man says something like often treat as a normal relational paradigm?)
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The notion that we have to "bring men into the conversation" is patronizing and totally ignores the *astounding* prevalence of "rape culture" among women - but, somehow it gets a pass because it's not men doing it... "
The overwhelming answer—get men involved." You know what you need to get a fucking start on? Make women start to admit that they big issue they need to "
get men involved" on is something that women feel totally entitled to do and not have it considered rapey/sexual assault/sexual coercion/whatever. Once again, feminist hypocrisy is through the roof.
Bloody feminism... Only concerned with "rape culture" when it's the men getting their rocks off that way. When women do it? Damn girl - so empowered!
