My son's mother hasn't exactly taken losing our custody case very well. I was named custodial parent not too long ago in family Court and also receive child support from her now. This is something that I'm sure she never in a million years thought was a possibility of ever happening.
My son's mother lives a very sheltered life and had minupulated her very small circle I to believing I was a total worthless douchebag. She is a very quite and meek person publicly and no one would ever believe the true person she is behind closed doors. It is why I had been secretly recording her constant mental and verbal abuse toward me.
In court it all came out and she could no longer fake the funk. The videos showed not only the insane verbal and mental abuse she put me through but her willingness to use our son as a weapon against me.
I recently spoke with her younger sister and she told me she has started to go off the deep end. She hasn't been to work in weeks and is currently in the process of moving in with her older sister. She is also already a month behind on her child support. She says her family still is supportive but feels mislead and unwilling to blindly believe her when it comes to the things she tells them...even though they still hate me. My life since leaving her has gotten better and hers much worse and she doesn't seem to have taken responsibility for that shift in circumstances according to her sister.
Not sure what to do. I couldn't stop the child support if I wanted too which I don't! I also don't want to stop or lessen her visitations which is 3 days a week for her but with her not having her own place soon it doesn't exactly make me feel comfortable.
It's hard to feel sorry for her but I do. I warned her hundreds of times during our relationship that things weren't going to turn out well for her and that she would have to face consequences for her actions and now the chickens have come to roost.
My son's mother lives a very sheltered life and had minupulated her very small circle I to believing I was a total worthless douchebag. She is a very quite and meek person publicly and no one would ever believe the true person she is behind closed doors. It is why I had been secretly recording her constant mental and verbal abuse toward me.
In court it all came out and she could no longer fake the funk. The videos showed not only the insane verbal and mental abuse she put me through but her willingness to use our son as a weapon against me.
I recently spoke with her younger sister and she told me she has started to go off the deep end. She hasn't been to work in weeks and is currently in the process of moving in with her older sister. She is also already a month behind on her child support. She says her family still is supportive but feels mislead and unwilling to blindly believe her when it comes to the things she tells them...even though they still hate me. My life since leaving her has gotten better and hers much worse and she doesn't seem to have taken responsibility for that shift in circumstances according to her sister.
Not sure what to do. I couldn't stop the child support if I wanted too which I don't! I also don't want to stop or lessen her visitations which is 3 days a week for her but with her not having her own place soon it doesn't exactly make me feel comfortable.
It's hard to feel sorry for her but I do. I warned her hundreds of times during our relationship that things weren't going to turn out well for her and that she would have to face consequences for her actions and now the chickens have come to roost.