Yeah man, it's weird. Like, idk I'm sure some girls go through that thought process of "Hmm he's not really hot, but I do want to stay here so let's do a pro list and con list. Con, he's meh. Pro, he's papers. Pro, he's smart and funny and he's really trying hard. Ahhh fuck it, let's do it." It's like giving someone the benefit of doubt, but with an added incentive. If the end result is a happy couple, should the initial motivation be questioned? Perhaps, perhaps not. Like I said, life is fucking weird. Look at this other guy who masturbated in the forest on live stream, for example..