This argument always comes from people already well entrenched in the wrestling world and lifestyle. It's sometimes really hard for people already into it (and I didn't understand till I got outside my high school program) to get perspective on what it's like for the non elite schools without full rosters and bustling youth programs that um.. ahem "acquire" talent.
And most importantly... What does not wanting to wear a singlet (which looks like gymnastics/ballet tutu to the uninformed) have anything to do with whether or not the sport is too "hard" or "tough" for someone or if they'll be "tough" enough to do it.. at all
Whether it's for the middle school program or a fledgling youth program either in a school, region, or state where the sport isn't popular, and often where it is already. Convincing, a kid or more importantly the parent who doesn't know jack squat about the sport, and what they have heard is almost always negative.. injuries, concussions, psycho/stupid training, cauliflower ear, skin disease and the big monkey.. cutting weight. And on top of that add in that the type of kid who would benefit the most from wrestling, whether due to being overweight, insecure, no discipline or positive male role models etc. who is tough enough if he's brought along correctly is the most likely to be put off by the singlet
On top of that numbers are down everywhere in Tennessee it's below cross country
If people don't want wrestling to become just a club sport for entitled brats with psycho rich parents living through their kids providing all of the funding. they need to start realizing what the reality of the situation is