Negative lolSounds like a great idea! When she breaks up with each and every BF, you'll be right there to comfort her!
I can honestly say I would be more annoyed at hearing anything through the walls, doesn't matter if its her getting banged out.not a good idea if you can hear her business from your apartment...i know your afraid for her when you bring girls over but how will you feel when she brings guys over. do you really want to hear that bed creeking
Just kidding with ya.....but it really seems like a bad idea, and I'm sure you know that. Keep looking for a new place.Negative lol
Hey, justify wanting to keep tabs on your ex all you want!lol you are so judgmental and think you have it all figured out.
There are other places yes, in the fucking ghetto. Where I will have to worry about my place being broken into every single day since I have nice cars="Oh this guy has money, lets rob him"
I've been looking for a few weeks now and just today happened to see the other apartment right next to her listed. Not like I seeked it out.
oh yea, there is another place I could stay in! Somewhat decent location, really good price, allows pets...yea I should just stay in that one! Oh wait, it allows smoking so the room smells like straight up asshole from past tenants and it also has mold in the walls. Perfect!
Sounds like a bad idea, but i get TS's mindset here..sometimes there really just is a great spot that can't be beat by anything in the vicinity in terms of location, costs, etc
But I would think it would probably be uncomfortable for her. Despite being cool with plenty of my exes...i would not want any of them to move next door to me.
Id honestly think itd be kind of a dick move, and itd be creepy as well.
Hey, justify wanting to keep tabs on your ex all you want!
There's a significant difference between being cool with an ex and still having occasional chats, and then having that ex essentially moving into the same house as you.I wouldnt call it creepy. She talks to me still more than I talk to her. I usually just ignore messages tbh. I really doubt she would think I'm obsessing over her especially after how things ended.
Its not preferable but I'm running out of time and options. I'll talk to her about it but whether or not shes ok with it really wont matter if I dont find something else ASAP. If she wasnt still there I would literally be packing up and moving my stuff right this second. I love the place. I would consider paying her $1000 to move somewhere else if it would make her more comfortable and get her out of my hair.
Stop projecting old man. its been 6 months and I need to bang A LOT more women before I settle down for good. I would even give a close friend my blessing to date her if he wanted.
I'm waiting on a response from the last few options I have. Depending on those I'll have to go from there. I'm about to be on the street so having an awkward neighbor in a nice apartment is preferable to living in my car with my cat.
There's a significant difference between being cool with an ex and still having occasional chats, and then having that ex essentially moving into the same house as you.
My point is less about the creepiness and more about the uncomfortability.
Who wants to LIVE next to their ex ? Especially when they have a new bf/gf, or fuck buddy?
A lot of thought put in to this girl that's no longer your business... imoNegative ghostrider. Not even a little bit.
This is by far the absolute best apartment I can get for the money/location. The landlord is awesome. Neighbors are good. Don't have to worry about my place getting broken into. Close to the highway etc.
Am I supposed to live in a shittier place just because we used to date? I'm going to ask her if shes comfortable with it just because I'm a gentleman, but I really do not want to get back together. I'm on a bang spree.
I'm a firm believer that if it takes that much effort/frustration/etc to stay together, its not meant to be. If we not only break up but stay broken up for over 6 months its definitely not meant to be.
I don't just mean on your endWell again its not preferable and I dont WANT to, but I really do not care if she has a new dude. As long as they are good neighbors, thats all I care about.