You're changing the goalpost around as well missing the point.
Obviously, mothers carefully raising their children with attention, discipline, time and love helps the child. The early years are extremely important for human development. However, that doesn't mean that women has to stay home forever, nor that it is the most important factor out of all the factors. You can be a stay at home/unemployed at be a terrible mother, as well as you can be working and a great one. Khabib, and this thread, was about women staying home throughout their life and not joining the workforce. It's about demeaning women and removing their autonomy against their will. Which is what I am saying is nonsense.
When measuring the complexity of a society, women in the workforce has a lot of benefits. With that said it's important to give some time for parents, and especially mothers, to be close to their child in early development. The two are not mutually excluse and thankfully your stoneage ways are going to the wayside. Well, actually that's not true because hunter gatherers had equal gender rights and distribution as far responsibilites and work goes (for the most part).
I think you're the one changing the goalposts. I didn't say women have to stay at home forever, neither did Khabib. Clearly there are circumstances where women have to work. However, in an ideal male/female relationship, it makes more sense for the mother to be with the child. It's a simple point and like I said previously, not controversial at all if you travel the world and observe social norms in different places/
You accusing Khabib of "removing women's autonomy" is another strawman - the man didn't enforce some sort of draconian policy of forcing women to stay at home. He gave his opinion on a matter in a sentence or two and you extrapolated from that he is working on some sort of governmental policy of forcing women to do something against their will? Either you are getting too emotional on this topic and thus throwing wild accusations around or you are deliberately building a strawman - I can't figure which.