Excellent subtle brag. 10/10, and congrats!
I really didn't mean for that to come off as braggy or douchey as it does. But yeah, I dig smaller athletic women. I've known a few. While none of them
regret cheer or gymnastics, they do end up with a lot of debilitating injuries that they have to deal with on a daily basis, and end up admitting they regret the toll it took on their body, especially those who focused on doing those activities competitively.
Gymnastics seems especially cruel given what it does to their joints, body composition, and self-esteem. The impact is so harsh and the competitive bar is set so high that you really are much better off being as tiny as possible. I've never personally known a gymnast who hadn't dealt with an eating disorder.
I'm not saying little girls shouldn't have role models, and I'm not saying that it's an inherently bad sport, but I think the competitive drive at such an early age ends up breaking a lot of young women in myriad ways. It's like how boys can't just have
fun in little league because too many never-was high school hero dads are trying to groom their snowflake for a nonexistent shot at MLB or college ball.
Football's another good example - grown-ass adults encouraging children to bludgeon each other into brain damage for vicarious enjoyment, yet addressing or even recognizing the faults somehow 'softens' the game.
I think sports are wonderful for kids. I think there's a lot to be learned in terms of grit, handling loss, and incremental improvement within a growth mindset.
I also think that they can royally fuck kids up, both mentally and physically.
I guess that's what I was trying to get at - it's okay to let kids have fun, pick their hobbies, and it's okay to push them to aspire for better things, but there's a level where *best* still isn't good enough, and i think teaching kids to view life in terms of what they lack is a great way to produce a dysfunctional adult.