Is this unprofessional (Part II - Updated)

Bro you need to start online dating, and I really hate saying that to anyone. I do find these threads entertaining and I'm glad the bitches want your D, but I think you need to quit fucking your students. Since you're in a position of power it could come back and really screw you.
 
Clicked thinking this was the dude who female friend's boss showed porn at work.

Found out it's older white guy with younger asian chick thread.

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As a former university professor I would caution you to not do this. I saw shit go really bad with one of my co workers who dated a student.

They dated for like 6 months but broke up, then he banged another student and the first girl found out and started some serious drama, following them onto the bus and shouting at them in public, having public meltdown freak outs at them on campus and in the university cafeteria etc, it was super ugly and my friend was asked to resign from his job.

This happened in china by the way which somehow made it even worse.
 
So...an update, albeit a disappointing one. This group of students and I, including the aforementioned female student, hung out and drank together. They wanted me to teach them some American drinking games so we played games like beerpong, never have I ever, etc. I do this with most of my adult students because some of them are really shy until they start drinking, and that tends to carry over in class. Usually after a night of drinking, the next time we have class, it goes much more smoothly because people actually open up and talk.

So anyway, we all get a bit drunk and all of my students say they want to go home as it's late, except for the girl in the OP. She wanted to party a bit more so we go to another bar where some of my friends are. There she's dropping mad hints that she's into me and being drunk, I say fuck it and make out with her. To which she says she was waiting forever for me to make a move. She says she can't take me back to her place because she lives with her sister, so we take a taxi and go to my place. At this point she is absolutely wasted. As soon as she sees the bed, she collapses on to it and passes out. She woke up for a bit to make out and take her clothes off but she passes out again. I tried to wake her up but to no avail. For a second I was afraid she was dead and I had to make sure she was still breathing. I just ended up lying next to her, drunk, horny, and thinking maybe we'll bang in the morning quickly before I go to work.

I just try to go to sleep, which I can't do when I'm drunk, not to mention I had a coffee when we started partying earlier so I was wired. Then my attempt to sleep is even more disturbed because the girl's sister started calling her nonstop. I could see her texts asking, "Where are you? Why aren't you picking up?" I tried multiple times to hand the phone to her saying it's your sister but this chick was completely out of it. This went on for literally an hour then I saw one text from the sister saying that she'll call the police because she's so worried. I think, 'that's not good' and shake the girl saying, "Your sister is going to call the police. You have to get up and talk to her." She finally gets up, takes a minute to gather herself, and calls her sister. Through the phone, I could hear the sister literally screaming at her to come back home and interrogating her like an overbearing mother, "Who are you with?! Where are you?! Why aren't you coming home?!"

My student is desperately trying to appease her sister and ends up giving in and decides to go home. I take her outside and help her grab a taxi. While we're waiting she says, "My sister means well but I didn't expect her to get this worried. What's an English word for this kind of personality?"
To which I reply, "Overbearing and neurotic." Turns out her sister wasn't even her big sister; it was her younger sister. If my sister did that, I'd tell her to shut up the fuck up and mind her own business but it's a different culture.

Like I said in my other thread about lifting and horniness, I've been going a bit crazy and with really wanting to fuck these days so I needless to say, this was a rather disappointing experience. I had a naked chick in my bed but ended up going to bed alone lol. In my frustration I woke up early hungover, and I went to the gym to bang out some squats instead.

Cliffs:
1. Got drunk with my student
2. Took her home
3. Got her naked
4. Didn't bang :(
 
If it is any consolation to you, TS, there is a benign butterfly effect going on here.

Every time you make a 'Trying to get my students/baristas drunk/naked but still no bang what to do' thread in Korea, you make a middle-aged woman very pleased with her own life and minor tribulations in Scandinavia.

You, sir, make the world go around.
 
Don't see how her sister was out of line.
They live together, she's a girl, she doesn't come home, doesn't tell her sis to not wait up, and doesn't answer repeat texts and calls at some crazy time in the morning. ..why wouldn't her sister be worried about her?

If you're living with someone it's pretty fucked up to not give them a heads up that you aren't coming home, particularly if you're a girl, and you're living with family.
Doesn't matter how old you are, your family is going to still worry about you
 
So...an update, albeit a disappointing one. This group of students and I, including the aforementioned female student, hung out and drank together. They wanted me to teach them some American drinking games so we played games like beerpong, never have I ever, etc. I do this with most of my adult students because some of them are really shy until they start drinking, and that tends to carry over in class. Usually after a night of drinking, the next time we have class, it goes much more smoothly because people actually open up and talk.

So anyway, we all get a bit drunk and all of my students say they want to go home as it's late, except for the girl in the OP. She wanted to party a bit more so we go to another bar where some of my friends are. There she's dropping mad hints that she's into me and being drunk, I say fuck it and make out with her. To which she says she was waiting forever for me to make a move. She says she can't take me back to her place because she lives with her sister, so we take a taxi and go to my place. At this point she is absolutely wasted. As soon as she sees the bed, she collapses on to it and passes out. She woke up for a bit to make out and take her clothes off but she passes out again. I tried to wake her up but to no avail. For a second I was afraid she was dead and I had to make sure she was still breathing. I just ended up lying next to her, drunk, horny, and thinking maybe we'll bang in the morning quickly before I go to work.

I just try to go to sleep, which I can't do when I'm drunk, not to mention I had a coffee when we started partying earlier so I was wired. Then my attempt to sleep is even more disturbed because the girl's sister started calling her nonstop. I could see her texts asking, "Where are you? Why aren't you picking up?" I tried multiple times to hand the phone to her saying it's your sister but this chick was completely out of it. This went on for literally an hour then I saw one text from the sister saying that she'll call the police because she's so worried. I think, 'that's not good' and shake the girl saying, "Your sister is going to call the police. You have to get up and talk to her." She finally gets up, takes a minute to gather herself, and calls her sister. Through the phone, I could hear the sister literally screaming at her to come back home and interrogating her like an overbearing mother, "Who are you with?! Where are you?! Why aren't you coming home?!"

My student is desperately trying to appease her sister and ends up giving in and decides to go home. I take her outside and help her grab a taxi. While we're waiting she says, "My sister means well but I didn't expect her to get this worried. What's an English word for this kind of personality?"
To which I reply, "Overbearing and neurotic." Turns out her sister wasn't even her big sister; it was her younger sister. If my sister did that, I'd tell her to shut up the fuck up and mind her own business but it's a different culture.

Like I said in my other thread about lifting and horniness, I've been going a bit crazy and with really wanting to fuck these days so I needless to say, this was a rather disappointing experience. I had a naked chick in my bed but ended up going to bed alone lol. In my frustration I woke up early hungover, and I went to the gym to bang out some squats instead.

Cliffs:
1. Got drunk with my student
2. Took her home
3. Got her naked
4. Didn't bang :(

Sounds like you have a relationship opened with this girl regardless of whether it was a initial success or not. You only have to ask if she wants to try again, or study privately etc.
 
If it is any consolation to you, TS, there is a benign butterfly effect going on here.

Every time you make a 'Trying to get my students/baristas drunk/naked but still no bang what to do' thread in Korea, you make a middle-aged woman very pleased with her own life and minor tribulations in Scandinavia.

You, sir, make the world go around.
Who are you talking about? @Banchan isn't Scandinavian
 
Amazing. Ts has been able to open himself to all the possible downfalls of banging some chick with no actual benefits.
 
I've been hit on by a female professor before. I can say it actually was very uncomfortable, because she wasn't attractive at all but I didn't want to reject her and have my grade suffer.

It was a very shitty position to be in and it finally made me realize why teachers shouldn't fuck students.

I ended up stringing her along until grades were turned in, then I gently told her I wasn't interested. I could've been mean and told her to fuck off or even gotten her fired, but there was something pathetic about her. I actually felt sorry for her. She must've been terribly lonely and desperate.


Anyway, my point is, wait till class is done, then you're free to fuck her
 
Who are you talking about? @Banchan isn't Scandinavian

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I've been hit on by a female professor before. I can say it actually was very uncomfortable, because she wasn't attractive at all but I didn't want to reject her and have my grade suffer.

It was a very shitty position to be in and it finally made me realize why teachers shouldn't fuck students.

I ended up stringing her along until grades were turned in, then I gently told her I wasn't interested. I could've been mean and told her to fuck off or even gotten her fired, but there was something pathetic about her. I actually felt sorry for her. She must've been terribly lonely and desperate.


Anyway, my point is, wait till class is done, then you're free to fuck her

I might of been reading this situation very wrong but here it is.

I got a 78 or something like that on my first physics II exam and I went in to talk to my teacher. Middle aged white woman, maybe 5' tall, brunette, thin, married to an Indian guy, and very proud of her two sons. We'd been friendly and I often asked questions in class but nothing until then had been off about our interactions. She asked me to close the door to her office and instead of talking over the desk she sat on the chair next to me and started going over the test with me. Thing is every time she made a point or wanted me to look at her she'd put her hand my thigh. I didn't say anything and just carried with conversation. She continued to be very friendly for the next few weeks but then just went cold one day but I was given the grade I earned without any issue or mention of it.
 
Wait...Are you bilingual, a polyglot? Your student/hook up is learning ESL yet her younger sister is texting her in English? That doesn't make any sense. Why would her text, specially when she was angry, in English? I'm calling this whole story BS unless you're a polyglot able to read multiple languages.
 
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