Is this considered stalking?

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  1. Drenalin

    Drenalin Banned Banned

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    Like I've said, she's the mother of my child. I have to support her. She needs to drive my daughter to places.

    She would do nothing if she knew I was keeping tabs on her. It's harmless. She already knows my onstar tells me the location of my truck.

    I wouldn't care at all if she was keeping tabs on me. I wouldn't have a care in the world if anyone is keeping tabs on me. Why would I care if I have nothing to hide?
     
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    Time to break up TS.
     
  3. Drenalin

    Drenalin Banned Banned

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    Let me ask you this, forget about the whole stalking thing. If someone borrowed something of yours that cost you $50k, wouldn't you occasionally check its location, if you could do so as easily opening an app on your phone?
     
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    Lol we're raising a child together.
     
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    i had an ex call my phone at like 2am to come get her from jail because she got a dui. i slept through her calls and picked her up around 8ish am.

    point of the story is, girls fuck up. it's how you handle the aftermath that matters. either give her the truck and trust her or dont give it to her and let her figure it out. don't use the truck as a means to keep tabs on her, i don't think it's stalking but it doesn't help things.
     
  6. Drenalin

    Drenalin Banned Banned

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    I have nothing to hide from her. If I want another chick I'm free to do so as long as I share her lol my gf tries to pick up girls for us. She goes through my phone not to see if I'm up to no good, but instead to text girls from my contacts. Heck she even watches the porn on my phone.
     
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    It's not like I'm intentionally letting her use my truck to keep tabs on her. I don't think people here understand the onstar app. It tells me the location of my truck. This isn't something I'm going out of my way for.
     
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    ehhh it was enough of a concern to make a post on it so on some level you're like "i wonder...".

    it's your life bro, but why add more shit onto your mental plate?
     
  9. Drenalin

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    Yeah I hear ya. I was curious how many people would actually consider it stalking. And I guarantee every single person in this thread would do the exact same thing no matter how much they trust their gf. They just refuse to admit it.
     
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    i agree to an extent. a younger cabear would check it, now? Nope. I just don't care enough anymore.
     
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    Jack Reacheround Never Go Black

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    I’m just saying, you may have trust issues. Also, don’t get married. All that cool shit she does now ends immediately.
     
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    Gutter Chris Chiropteran Enthusiast

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    No dude I would not as I would not let anyone but someone I have the most faith in be close to me like that.

    I know you dont want to think you are in the wrong on this one but you dont lowjack your girlfriend unless you want to have a problem or already have one and need to be sure before leaving.

    No one on sherdog ever admits to being wrong about anything but seriously its that simple
     
  13. Drenalin

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    Really? Well I think anyone would be foolish to trust a woman. I could make the argument that me checking the location of my truck has actually helped me gain trust. And like I've stated several times, I'm not going out of my way at all to track my truck. It's as simple as opening my onstar app
     
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    Gutter Chris Chiropteran Enthusiast

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    Alright lets put it to the test.

    Go tell her every few hours you check the trucks gps cuz its super easy and 50 k and report back to me about which of us was right about the situation

    seriously its the mother of your kid. You either trust or you dont and checking her whereabouts throughout the day is indeed creepy stalker behavior trust issues or no and for your relationships sake I hope you can work past it. I like ya weve talked before and I would hate for you to be the next asshole who gets an Ipad on the dog

    Im not tryin to be harsh either just trying to be real as can be with you. Im a people person and Im usually spot on with how people are gonna react. Knowing that its an option and knowing you did it are 2 different things and like i said ask her if you dont believe me
     
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    LOL @ some of you guys acting like you never installed a keylogger on your wife's computer. Checking up on your chick just means you care.
     
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    You're kinda confused. She's the mother of my child, I don't really have a choice. I have to help her by letting her use the truck.

    And she wouldn't care at all if she knew I could see her location. She would laugh at me.
     
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    Wait I'm confused, what exactly are saying you're right about. Are you saying she will care that I check her location?
     
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    Gutter Chris Chiropteran Enthusiast

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    yea Im sayin thats creepy and id think she would make an issue of it

    or store it and use it for later like they do
     
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    Honestly it would be a fun way to mess with someone. Eh, I mean it's your property (the truck), so not really but I guess it depends more on your intent and frequency.
     
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    Well glad she has a sense of homor about it. Generally trust issues are dangerous in a relationship


    your relationship is like your own personal farm and the seeds that grow are the seeds you plant and that means if you put something bad in there than it will grow as well.

    If shes cool with you being that hardcore than I guess have at it but for others reading I would advise not going big brother on your sig other


    i share a car with my wife and the thought to check its gps location never even occurred and its the insecurity and the unhealthy things that come with it that im trying to tell you to avoid. Downloading that shit onto other people tends to be one of the most toxic acts one can do in a relationship does that make sense ?

    Life advice from a redneck stoner monk my friend :)
     
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