I'm getting bullied, can I have some grappling advice?

BJJ_Rage said:
It doesn't matter, you learn basic defense quite fast after a couple of months at least you will be able to stalk him some bit, specially withou the gi
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First thing tomorrow I'll sign up for a class but a couple of months sounds pretty depressing. Oh well.
 
Also, speaking in general, you kinda sound like you have a 'victimizable' personality right now; you really shouldn't be afraid of getting rough and clocking someone if they are really bothering you. Likewise, they can't grapple you if you just refuse to play the game in the first place and just blow them off, with however much force as necessary.

Also also, that kid sounds like he's never experienced real discipline in his life.

Learning how to grapple yourself would be one way to solve the issue; his father (or maybe even you) turning him over their knee for a paddling would be another.
 
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Go sign up for a blue belt Gracie online program.

They teach self defense.
 
rmongler said:
Also, speaking in general, you kinda sound like you have a 'victimizable' personality right now; you really shouldn't be afraid of getting rough and clocking someone if they are really bothering you. Likewise, they can't grapple you if you just refuse to play the game in the first place and just blow them off, with however much force as necessary.

Also also, that kid sounds like he's never experienced real discipline in his life.

Learning how to grapple yourself would be one way to solve the issue; someone (maybe even you) turning him over their knee for a paddling would be another.
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Yeah, maybe. I would usually try to confront a personality trait like that but I don't want to risk being knocked out again; it's one of the worst feelings in the world and I've read a lot about the dangers of it. Also, I like cooking and watching old movies! Never had a fight in my life so I'm not sure if I would "clock" him successfully.

He really hasn't been disciplined, I would imagine something like letting go when someone taps out is an important part of Jiu Jitsu. If I get really desperate, then I guess I could go to his coach/sensei/whatever-they-call-his-trainer and tell him but that would a last resort. I'll take note of the advice though just in case.
 
anonymoused said:
I was stuck in a head scissor and tapped out but he didn't let go and I was rendered unconscious. Since then he constantly beats me up, to the point where I'm losing sleep over it.
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Sounds like it evens out -- you lose sleep at night, get some extra sleep at day when your bro chokes you out. What's the problem?
 
Get a roll of nickels. Roll them in your fist. Punch that little twat in the nose. While he's on the ground crying let him know that you're a bit fed up with him being a cunt and that you'll have no problem making his death look like an accident.
 
Look him dead square in the eye and tell him santa isn't real
 
This is what you need, TS
 
kpoz12 said:
This is what you need, TS
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God damn, that's the sort of person who wonders the street alone at night waiting for someone to try and rob him. I'm sure all of that took a lifetime to learn and perfect; I don't even know how he managed to escape the arm bar half way through but it would be hard to replicate that.

Does he have online lessons (without the guns part)?
 
anonymoused said:
Does he have online lessons (without the guns part)?
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Just to note, I think a major part of me not fighting back is psychological. I've been diagnosed with a lot of anxiety based disorders in the past like selective mutism, mild dissociation etc.

So whenever I'm face-to-face with him I start stuttering and feel light headed which means I'm not really capable of fighting back much. Of course, he knows about that and takes advantage of it; he even wants me to start paying him.

I'm sure if I trained/knew a few ufc techniques, then I would feel more confident in a confrontational situation so I'll definitely go to a session, whether online or real life. I appreciate all the advice given.
 
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